Kodi mungasiye bwanji munthu?

Pamene njira ndi munthu zimasiyana - ndipo zimachitika kuti pafupifupi sanatembenukire, ndizovuta kwambiri kutsimikizira mtima wanu wovutika kusiya maganizo omwe amabweretsa mavuto ambiri. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi chinsinsi, kusiya kusiya munthu ndikuchotsa kuzunzidwa kanthawi kochepa. Komabe, ngati mukuchita izi mosamala, palibe chomwe sichingatheke.

Kodi tingayambe chifukwa cha chikondi?

Mu funso la momwe mungasiyire kukonda wokondedwa, nthawi zonse pali funso lina - kodi n'zotheka? Kapena, monga akunena, simungathe kulamulira mtima wanu?

Ndipotu akazi ambiri amadzidalira kwambiri. Choyamba amalingalira ndi makhalidwe ambiri okongola, osati zonse zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zenizeni. Kenaka amadzikhulupirira okha kuti ndiye munthu wotumidwa ndi mlengalenga, ndipo ngati sali naye, ndiye kuti palibe chimwemwe chosakhala ndi wina aliyense. Ndipo pamene zikutanthawuza kuti ndi munthu uyu chiyanjano ndi chifukwa chosatheka, asungwana amayamba kufufuza tsamba la wokondeka m'mabwenzi a anthu, kumutcha, kuyang'ana pa zithunzi zomwe zimagwirizana komanso nthawi zonse kuganizira za iye.

Kotero kuti asiye kukonda munthu ndizosatheka, chifukwa kuti kugwa chifukwa cha chikondi ndiko kuiwala. Kuyiwala kukuphatikizidwa mu chidziwitso chathu pokhapokha ngati chidziwitso sichingakhale chofunikira ndipo sichikhazikika, ndipo ngati nthawi zonse mukuchiyang'ana, simungaiwale. Koma ngati mukudziwa momwe mungasiyire kukonda mwamuna wanu, ndiye kuti khama lanu lidzakhala lopambana.

Kukonzekera kusiya kundikonda

Atsikana ambiri safuna kuyenda mwachibadwa, ndipo amayamba kulowa m'dera limene sakulidziŵa bwino - m'ma matsenga. Amakhulupirira kuti mukhoza kudzipanga "lapel" kapena kuwerenga chiwembu - ndipo zonse zidzatha.

Komabe, monga akatswiri m'dera lino akunena kuti, kuwerengera mwakuya chiwembu kuti asiye kukonda mwamuna wake kuli ngati kudula chithandizo cha mankhwala kuchipatala. Popanda kudziwa zonse zomwe simukudziwa, simungasinthe kanthu, kapena kudzipweteka nokha.

Kodi mungasiye bwanji chikondi ndi kuiwala munthu?

M'magaziniyi, mawu ofunika ndi "kuiwala". Kuti malingaliro a munthu asasokoneze moyo wanu, muyenera kusiya maganizo ake, ndipo zonse zomwe zimachitika pakati panu ziziwoneka ngati nkhani, ndipo mbiri yakale ndi chinthu chomwe chimakumbukiridwa ndichisoni, koma sichisokoneza. Kotero, momwe mungadzipangire nokha kuchoka mu chikondi?

1. Choyamba, perekani zowawa zanu, kulira. Ngati simungathe kuchita nokha, yang'anani filimu yowawa. Izi ndi zofunika. Koma izi tili ndi tsiku limodzi lokha.
2. Kuchokera tsiku limenelo kupita, ndinu munthu watsopano, kulola kupita kumbuyo. Ife timabwezeretsa dongosolo ndi kuchotsa kuwona zonse zomwe zimakumbutsa za munthu uyu. Inde, simukusowa kupereka galu wamoyo yemwe wapatsidwa ndi kennel, koma muyenera kuzindikira kuti chinyama si mphatso, koma monga momwe mumakonda.
3. Timakana zambiri zokhudza iye. Ndi bwino kuti nthawi yoyamba kupewa anthu omwe mumacheza nawo, musapemphe kanthu kena, musapite kwa iye tsamba m'magulu. mawonekedwe, kuchotsa mbiriyakale yonse ya makalata komanso zambiri zowonjezera.
4. Kenaka dziyang'anire nokha: sintha tsitsi lanu, yang'anani diresi mumasewero atsopano, kusintha njira yojambula, kuyang'ana pagalasi, mwawona munthu wina.
5. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu bwino: lembani masewera a masewera, maphunziro a chinenero, phunzirani ntchito yowonjezera kapena kuyamba kusamba zinthu. Pamene mphamvu yanu yatsopano ikufunika kwambiri, ndibwino. Musakhale ndi nthawi yachisoni.
6. Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi kunja kwa nyumba. Choyamba, zidzakuthandizani kuti musaganize za zomwe zapitazo, kachiwiri, zidzakuthandizani kuti mudziwe zatsopano, zomwe ziri zofunika kuti mukhale odzidalira.
7. Nthawi iliyonse yomwe mumadziganizira nokha, dzifunseni nokha "imani."

Malamulo asanu ndi awiri osavutawa amatsogoleredwa ku mfundo yakuti mumakhala kosavuta kusokoneza ndikusiya kukonda munthu, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kubwerera ku moyo wosangalatsa.