Kuwerenga mafilimu achikondi kapena kuwonera mafilimu, timadabwa momwe chikhalidwe chachikuluchi chagonjetsera munthu ndi mawu angapo kapena manja? Ndipo ndithudi, ife timathamanga kukafufuzafuna momwe tingapezere munthu pabedi ndi mawu ndi ziganizo zomwe zimatsogolera oimira za kugonana mwamphamvu, ndikuiwala kuti palibe choyimira bwino pano, ndipo simungakhoze_inu mukukumbukira, kuti munthu aliyense ndi wosiyana? Winawake wapsyopsyona m'khosi, ndipo wina amakonda kukunong'oneza m'kamwa mwanu momwe mungakonde kugona naye nthawi yomweyo. Choncho, munthu amatha kumvetsa mfundo zina zomwe zimawoneka kuti zimakhalapo pakati pa amai, komanso kudziwa momwe angagwirire mwamuna pabedi adzakhala ndi mwiniwake.
Kodi mungamupeze bwanji munthu?
Tiyeni tiwone chomwe chimapangitsa kuyang'ana kwa amuna ndi kumvetsera, zomwe zimapangitsa akazi kukhala ofunika.
- Zovala zomwe sizimabisa makutu okongola a thupi lachikazi. Zotere, zinthu zomwe zikugwirizana ndi chiwerengero chanu m'malo abwino: papa, chifuwa ndi ntchafu. Komanso kukopa mdulidwe wamwamuna kufupi ndi nsalu yayitali, ndipo ngati mu gawo padzakhala kuwonetsa kanthawi koti kumangirika kotchinga kuchokera m'matangadza, ndiye kumasangalala kumaperekedwa. Ndipo okongola kwambiri ndi mabalasi ndi batani osasunthika omwe amawopsya kuti atsegule ndi kutsegula malingaliro abwino a dzenje.
- Amuna amakonda kukonda, koma chifukwa amakonda kuyang'ana mkazi atakhala wamaliseche, ngati n'zotheka kuthetsa zitseko za thupi.
- Ndipo, ndithudi, ntchito yaikulu imasewera ndi zovala zamkati ndi mtundu wake. Linen iyenera kukhala yazimayi, yokoma, yachisanu, komanso yosamvetsetseka ya mtundu wina wa masewera omwe sungapangitse chikhumbo chilichonse. Koma mtundu wa zovala zamkati, ndiye malo oyamba okopa ndi ofiira (kapezi) ndi wakuda. Ndipo wamng'ono kwambiri ndi zovala zamkati zamabuluu.
- Ndi zovala ngati zongotulutsidwa, tsopano tiyeni tisunthire ku khalidwe. Azimayi onse amafuna kudziwa mawu omwe amatsogolera kwa amuna, koma palibe zovuta zokondweretsa anthu onse. Choncho, ndizoyeso ndi zolakwika zomwe mungathe kupeza kuti mawu amachokera kuti mutenge munthu wanu. Zoona, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti amuna ambiri amawoneka momveka bwino, choncho zisonyezo zopanda mphamvu zingakhale zosafunika. Koma nthawi zambiri "kuyima-crane" kumalira kuchokera kuzinena zowona. Yesani ndikupeza tanthauzo lolondola.
- Kugonana, mumayenera kumuwonetsa munthuyo kuti mumamukonda, kuti chilichonse chimene amachita sichinthu chopanda phindu. Chifukwa chosayankhidwa pa gawo lanu (ndi kuyankha ndi kumvetsera mawu) zingalepheretse chikhumbo chilichonse chobwereza machitidwewo. Pamapeto pake, sikuti mumangofuna kukhala okongola komanso okondedwa.
- Akazi ambiri amaganiza za momwe angapangire munthu kupsopsona. Ndi zophweka, muyenera kupeza mfundo za mwamuna wanu, zomwe zimpsompsona zimakondweretsa kwambiri. Ngakhale anthu ena amanena kuti ubwino wopsompsona ndi wopopera, koma iyi si njira yokhayo yokhalira munthu wabwino. Mlejut ambiri a kupsyopsyona komanso kuphwanya khosi, pafupifupi zonse monga kumakhudza pakati pamimba ndi mimba. Misozi, mapiko, mapewa amkati, zala - malo alionse angakhale munthu wosadziwika, inu
Zimangokhala ndikufufuza zonse ndi chithandizo cha lilime ndi milomo. - Kupeza mwamuna nthawi zina zokwanira kumufunsa wokondedwa wake za kugonana kwake. Ngati mumatha kukambirana naye, ndiye kuti adzalumphira kuchithunzicho ndi chisangalalo.
- Pankhaniyi, nthawi zambiri timayesa kupanga chiwombankhanga chokwanira, ndikuchiganizira molakwika. Kwa ife zikhoza kukhala choncho, koma pafupifupi anthu onse samazisowa konse, mosiyana, kuwala kowala mu chipinda kuli bwino ku mdima wandiweyani. Chifukwa palibe chomwe chingakhoze kukondweretsa koposa kulingalira kwa mkazi wamaliseche wokondedwa.