Kudziwa ndi makolo

Moyo wathu uli wodzazidwa ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana zomwe, mwa njira imodzi, zimatsimikizira njira yake. Mosakayika, chiyanjano choyamba ndi makolo a theka lachiwiri ndi chimodzi mwa zochitika zofunika kwambiri ndi zofunika.

Kudziwa ndi makolo a mwamuna

Tsiku lina tsiku lina mnyamata wina akufuna kukudziwitsani kwa banja lake. Inde, nthawi ino ndi yosangalatsa, koma sizosangalatsa. Ndipotu, sitepe iyi ingangonena kuti ubale wanu ukupita kumtunda watsopano, wofunika kwambiri komanso wofunikira. Ndicho chifukwa chake chisangalalo ndi chomveka, koma sikuyenera kukhala ndi mantha komanso kupewa msonkhano wotero. Chibwenzi chanu sichidzasangalala kwambiri kumva kapena kumva kuti simukufuna msonkhano uno, chifukwa ali. Komabe, ngati simunakonzekere sitepe imeneyi, muyenera kulankhula momasuka ndikufotokozera malingaliro anu kwa iye, munthu wachikondi adzakumvetsa.

Koma ngati mutasankha, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziŵa malamulo ena oti mupeze chibwenzi ndi makolo a mnyamata kapena mkwati:

1. Yesetsani musanayambe msonkhano kuti mudziwe zambiri kuchokera kwa mnyamata wanu zokhudza makolo ake: kodi amakondwera ndi chiyani, ndi makhalidwe ati a khalidwe. Izi zidzakhala zothandiza kuti mukhale okonzeka kuganiza kuti mudziwe ndi alendo omwe simunali nawo.
2. Pamsonkhano umachita mwachibadwa, musayese kumanga nokha munthu amene sali. Makhalidwe abwino amamva nthawi zonse ndipo nthawi zambiri amachititsa zoipa.
3. Komabe, khalani aulemu ndi kumwetulira. Kumwetulira nthawi zonse kumasokoneza komanso kumasokoneza kulankhulana kosangalatsa.
4. Koma chovalacho, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuvala kwa nyengoyi komanso zochitikazo. Sankhani zovala zomwe mudzakhala omasuka, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo ndi yokongola komanso yabwino.
5. Kuyankhula ndi makolo ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri wophunzira za wosankhidwa wanu mfundo iliyonse yosangalatsa kuyambira ali mwana kapena achinyamata, gwiritsani ntchito izi.
6. Kumbukirani kuti ngati mkazi uyu ndi mwamuna adakwanitsa kulera mwana wabwino kwambiri - wokondedwa wanu, ndiye - iwowo ndi anthu abwino kwambiri ndipo mudzatha kupeza chinenero chimodzi. Ndipotu, chimwemwe cha mwana wawo ndicho chisangalalo chawo ndipo amakhalanso ndi nkhawa, osachepera anu.

Tiyeni tidziwe wokondedwayo ndi makolo athu

Mphindi wina wochepetsetsa komanso wofunika, kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana, amadziwana ndi makolo a mkwatibwi. Yesetsani kulowa mmalo mwa mnyamata wanu, posachedwa inu nokha munali m'malo mwake. Zoonadi, amakhalanso ndi nkhawa komanso amafuna kuti azikonda makolo anu. Muuzeni za iwo, yochenjezani za nkhani zomwe zingaletsedwe kapena zazing'ono za banja lanu. Inde, nkofunika kuti muzimva kuvomerezedwa kwa makolo anu - kuwauza zabwino za wokondedwa wanu. Motero, mudzatha kukonzekera pasadakhale malo abwino ocheza nawo.

Ngati inu ndi mnyamata wanu mwasankha kale kuchitapo kanthu chofunikira monga kulengedwa kwa banja komanso ngakhale tsiku laukwati latha kale, ndiye nthawiyi ndi nthawi yoyamba yodziwa makolo a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Msonkhanowu nthawi zambiri umanyamula katundu wambiri - kukambilana za zochitika za gulu la chikondwererochi. Pachifukwa ichi, nkofunika osati kungokhala ndi zokambirana zokha, komanso kuti tisaiwale zaumwini wathu, kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino. Kambiranani malo a msonkhano uno ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo, mogwirizana ndi zofuna za makolo anu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mabanja onse adalimbikitsa dacha ndipo mumalo osadziwika bwino adzamva bwino, ndiye kuti malo abwino kwambiri adzakhala tchuthi kudziko. Komabe, picnic ndi shish kebabs ndi nsomba ndizosankha, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukhala maziko a ubwenzi wolimba pakati pa mabanja.

Pomaliza, nkofunika kuzindikira kuti, mosasamala za malingaliro a makolo, mumasankha bwenzi lanu lamoyo ndipo, mosasamala kanthu za zochitika zirizonse, zosankha zanu zidzakhazikitsidwa pazomwe mukufuna.