Chikondi patali - ndizotheka, ndi momwe mungasunge ubale patali?

Chikondi patali - kodi ndibwino kulowera mukumverera uku? Kodi pali tsogolo la chikondi choterocho? Nthawi zina mtima sumafunsa ndikuyankha, chochita chiyani? Sizinthu zoyipa ndipo anthu zikwi kuzungulira dziko lapansi adutsa zochitika zapaderazi ndikuphatikizapo zolinga zawo.

Kodi chikondi chingatheke patali?

Kodi pali chikondi patali? Bwanji? Chikondi ndi chosiyana ndipo zimachitika ndipo sizingatheke. Anthu ambiri akhoza kukwaniritsa tsogolo lawo chifukwa cha mwayi woperekedwa ndi malo, kapena kuti akumanapo mosavuta, ngakhale kuti si onse omwe adakhala pamodzi, koma alipo omwe akugonjetsa zopinga zonse zolekanitsa ndikupeza chikondi chenicheni.

Kodi chikondi chimakhala kutali bwanji?

Ubale patali ndizochepa misonkhano monga mphatso ya chiwonongeko, chisoni ndi chikondi pa nthawi yomweyo? Ngati mau a chikondi choterocho? Wina mwa njirayi amakhala moyo wonse, ena sangathe kupirira ndipo amakonda kwenikweni, ngakhale kuti alibe chikondi , komabe munthuyo ali pafupi. Koma iwo omwe adakondana patali nthawizonse amawoneka mumtima mwawo fanizo la iwo omwe amawaphatikizira nawo, koma kukumana kotereku. Mmenemo pali mtundu wina wosakwanira komanso wokongola.

Ubale patali - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo

Mmene mungapangire ubale wathunthu patali - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo:

• Kukhala bwenzi, wokondedwayo ayenera kukhala ndi chikhumbo chokhala pafupi ndikulankhulana pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana zomwe ziri zofunika kwa iye;
• Musalankhule za zomwe zimalekanitsa, koma yang'anani mitu yomwe imasonkhana ndikugwirizanitsa;
• Ndikofunika kusonyeza moona mtima mmene mumamvera - mawu aulemu, m'malo mokhudza;
• sankhani gawo lopanda ndale lomwe mungakumane nalo nthawi zambiri, lingakhale lowonetsa pamapu akuwonetsa kupambana kwa theka la mtunda, chikhumbo chokomana wina ndi mzake, aliyense agonjetse mtunda wautali - ndi wokondana kwambiri.

Kodi ndi bwino kuyambitsa ubwenzi patali?

Kuyesa kumverera pamtunda kapena momwe mungapulumulire pachibwenzi patali, mwinamwake sayenera kuyambitsidwa? Nthawi zina zochitika zoterezi zimafunika ndipo kugonana kwathunthu kumachokera mwadzidzidzi, ndipo mwadzidzidzi - ndizochitika, palibe yemwe akudziwa, kotero ngati mtima umati "Inde!" - muyenera kukhulupilira , kenako mumadzudzula kuti simunayesenso. Izi ziri choncho, mukusowa kulimbika pang'ono ndi chidaliro mukumverera kwanu.

Chidziwitso cha chikondi patali

Chidziwitso cha chikondi kwa mnyamata ali patali ndi kukondeka kwambiri, koma amuna ngati izo pamene mayi wawo akulemba makalata kapena ndakatulo zokhuza kupatukana. Chifukwa chakuti okondedwa adasiyanitsidwa ndi mtali wautali, dziko lapansi linamva masalmo ambiri okongola, ma prose, ma buku - nthawi zonse zimakhudza moyo, kotero musachite mantha kuwonetsera kuzindikira kwanu mwa chikondi, zofuna za moyo nthawi zonse ndi zokongola.

Mmene mungakhalire maubwenzi patali?

Chikondi patali - chifukwa cha intaneti padziko lonse lapansi, dziko lapansi linagwirizanitsa mu malo amodzi, simungathe kuchoka panyumba kuti mupange chiyanjano? Koma kodi pali tsogolo kwa iwo omwe ali mbali ina ya chinsalu? Pakuti kukopa kwa moyo kulibe malire, funso ndilo, pamene chikondi chinachitika momwe mungakhalire ndi momwe mungasinthire ubale ndi mnyamatayo patali? Zothandiza pang'ono, koma zonse ndizofunikira komanso zoyenera kuyesa:

1. Ubale uyenera kuwonedwa ngati weniweni, ngati munthu wapafupi, kuti akhale ndi chidwi, kufunsa, kuti amvetsere, kuti akhale ndi chidwi.
2. Musaope kuwonetsera nokha, umulungu - chikole cha kuyanjana.
3. Msonkhano uyenera kuchitika, zilibe mantha.
4. Kukhulupirirana kwa wina ndi mzake ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la ubale wa nthawi yaitali, mpaka pali msonkhano weniweni komanso kumvetsetsa kuti ndinu okwatirana, sikuyenera kukhalanso malo owonetsa zachiwawa za nsanje , zikhoza kuopseza.

Mmene mungasunge chikondi patali?

Nchiyani chingakhale chovuta kwambiri kumverera kuposa wokondedwa kumbali inayo ya dziko, kapena mumzinda wina, momwe mungasunge ubale patali? Palibe amene anganene kuti izi ndi zophweka, choncho ndikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito njira zonse zomwe zingatheke.

• Pitirizani kudziwitsidwa pa zochitika zonse, kusankha njira zowankhulirana, phindu la dziko lamakono limathandizira kukhala "mwachikhalidwe" pafupi ndi maola 24 pa tsiku, mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti, mavidiyo, mazokambirana;
• kuwonetseratu nthawi yanu yomwe mungathe kuuluka, bwerani ku theka lanu ndipo mulole kuti tsikulo likhale lokha, koma adzakhala okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zamatsenga mukakonzekera, koma ngakhale ziri zodabwitsa kwambiri;
• Kulankhulana pamitu yosiyana, kulengeza nthawi zosokoneza kumathandiza kukhala anthu apamtima ngakhale patali;
• Ndikofunika kulimbikitsana nthawi zonse - ndipo zonse zidzatha.

Ubale patali - momwe mungagawire?

Momwe mungathetsere maubwenzi patali - funsoli likufunsidwa ndi maanja omwe atopa kwambiri malingaliro . Ndi zovuta komanso zamaganizo komanso zakuthupi, pamene zimakhudza komanso nthawi yapamtima ndizofunika kwambiri. Zomwe mungachite ngati mutasankha kugawana njira:

1. Choyamba, dzipatseni mwayi wofufuza malingaliro anu kachiwiri. Cholinga chachikulu cha kugawikana ndi mtunda wodedwa kwambiri kapena chifukwa - mnzanu mwiniwake, kumverera kwake kwakhazikika. Kuvomereza nokha m'choonadi kumapweteka, komanso kuchiritsa.
2. Lembani mndandanda wa zopindulitsa ndi zamwano za ubale wotere, zomwe ziri zambiri?
3. Kodi vuto lingathetsedwe? Kodi pali njira iliyonse yowonjezeramo kukhala pafupi ndi nthawi zambiri? Ngati sichoncho - ndiye kuti kupatukana sikungapeweke.
4. Muuzeni mnzanuyo moona mtima za chisankho chawo chogawana nawo, popanda kuyang'ana mmbuyo ndikuyesa kukhalapo mu ulamuliro waubwenzi. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kupanga masewera, kuyamika mnzanuyo nthawi yomwe adakhala pamodzi ndikuthandizana patali.
5. Yambani kumanga moyo wanu, kulola kukhala ndi ubale watsopano. Moyo umapitirira.

Mafilimu okhudza chikondi patali

Kutalika kumapha chikondi - ndi zoona? Mwinamwake, ngati miyoyo inali yosagwirizana, ndiye sikunali chikondi, ndipo mtunda suyenera kuchita nawo? Chikondi patali ndi ndondomeko yabwino ya maganizo ya filimuyi ndipo imagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino ndi otsogolera ambiri omwe amakonda kuwombera masewera achikondi. Mafilimu onena za maonekedwe akutali:

1. " 10,000 km: Chikondi patali / 10 000 km ". Sergio ndi Alex amakhala ku Barcelona, ​​iwo ndi banja lolimba, chilakolako chawo pambuyo pa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zaukwati ndi chowoneka bwino. Alex akupereka ntchito ya maloto ku Los Angeles ndipo mtsikanayo akuvomereza. Chaka chopanda bwenzi, Alex ndi Sergio angasinthe maganizo awo?
2. " Pa mtunda wa chikondi / Going The Distance ." Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yokhala ndi mbiri yabwino kwambiri pakati pa a protagonists ndipo akuyenera kubwerera ku San Francisco, ndipo Garrett amakhala ku New York. Erin ndi Garrett akuyesa kugonjetsa mtunda wa chikondi.
3. " Lake House ". Chikondi patali ndipo makilomita apa sikuti akulakwa, ali kale, ali mtsogolo, zaka ziwiri zokha amawagawana nawo, amalembera makalata wina ndi mzake, ali ndi galu limodzi la awiri, ndi nyumba panyanja. Iwo adzagonjetsa chirichonse, chifukwa chikondi chenicheni sichimalire malire.
4. " Monga wopenga ." Anna ndi Yakobo ali ophunzira, ndipo kukhala nawo nthawi yayitali, amaphwanya malamulo a wophunzira wa visa, ndipo akafika ku England akupeza ntchito yowatumiza anthu kudziko lina, Anna sangathe kupita kwa wokondedwa wake ku New York.

Mabuku okhudza patali

Chikondi chiyesedwa ndi nthawi ndi mtunda - choonadi ichi posachedwa chimanenedwa kukhala kutalika kwa nzeru ndi makhalidwe abwino , nthawi ya chikondi chimatha ndipo ngati chikondi ndi mabanja apatali patali zimayesa choonadi cha malingaliro? Izi ndizokhakha, koma ndikukhulupirira kuti izi ndizochitikabe. Ndipo kuti ukhale wouziridwa ndi kumverera chomwe chiri, iwe ukhoza kuwerenga mabuku otsatirawa:

1. " Angelica ndi chikondi chake " A. Golon, S. Golon. Mafa osafa a nthawi zonse ndi anthu. Chikondi ndi amuna ndi akazi okongola patali. Iwo ali omangidwa kwamuyaya mu mtima ndipo zopinga sizikhoza kuwononga chikondi ichi.
2. "Njira yabwino yothetsera mphepo yakumpoto " D. Glattauer. Miyoyo iwiri yokhayokha mu webusaiti ya webusaitiyi inapeza wina ndi mnzake, kuchokera pa kalata - maganizo ndi maganizo osatha. Koma bwanji ngati titenga ndi kukomana mmoyo weniweni, mwadzidzidzi matsenga akumverera atha kumphepo kumpoto?
3. " Ali kuti? "M. Levy. Ndi Susan, ndipo ndi Philippe, abwenzi kuyambira ali mwana "osaphonya madzi" sanazindikire momwe ubwenzi wawo unakhalira wamkulu ndipo izi zimamuopseza Susan, akuthamanga kuchokera ku chikondi mpaka pamphepete mwa mphepo yamkuntho, koma kodi akhoza kuthawa kumverera kwakukulu?
4. " Victoria " K. Hamsun. Chikondi cha anthu awiri patali chimachitika ndi izi: Iwo ali oimira machitidwe osiyanasiyana komanso izi ndi kutalika kwa phompho, kukonda ndikudziwa kuti sikutanthauza kukhala pamodzi.
5. " Ine sindikukhulupirira izo. Ine sindikuyembekeza. Ndimakonda "S. Ahern. Amalembera makalata wina ndi mzake, amapanga ntchito pakati pa makalata, kubereka ana, kusudzulana, ndipo ali ndi zaka 50 amamvetsa kuti amakonda kwambiri moyo wawo wonse ndipo amafuna kukhala pamodzi.