Ngakhale akatswiri akale amanena kuti kumverera kozizwitsa ndi kosadabwitsa kuposa chikondi sikulipo. Mtsinje wina wa Amur umafika pang'onopang'ono komanso pamtima, pamene ena, kuti apindule theka lachiwiri, ayenera kuyesetsa kwambiri kuti izi ...
Koma, apa, izo zinachitika ndi inu basi. Inu munagwidwa mu chikondi! Iye ndi wokongola kwambiri, wokongola komanso wokonda kwambiri. M'mawu ake, ndiye yekhayo amene mwawona mu maloto anu kwa nthawi yayitali, koma, tsoka ... sakuwonekeranso. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Momwe mungapangire mnyamata kugwirizana ndi iyemwini, popanda kugwiritsa ntchito zikondi ndi miyambo yamatsenga?
- Fotokozani cholinga. Choyamba, muyenera kudzipangira nokha zomwe mukufuna kuchokera ku maloto anu. Inu mumati, mwachitsanzo, ine ndikufuna kukonda ndi mnyamata, kuti ndizindikire ndekha kuti ine ndikhoza kugwira ntchito ya wonyenga wakupha. Kapena: Ndikufuna kupambana mtima, chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti ndi theka langa lachiwiri, ndipo sindingathe kulingalira moyo wanga popanda iye. Kuchokera momwe inu mukuyankhira funso ili, njira zina zowonjezera zimadaliranso. Ngati ichi ndi chikondi, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mumenyane ndi chisangalalo chanu, ngati mukufooka kwa miniti, ganizirani mosamala - ndi masewera oyenerera kandulo?
- Pezani mfundo zofala zowunikira. Akatswiri ambiri amalingaliro a maganizo pafunso la kukondana kwambiri ndi mnyamata, akulangizidwa, choyamba, kuyamba ndi kufunafuna zofunikila. Ngati mwadziwa kale, zidzakhala zosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito ndondomekoyi ya ndondomekoyi, makamaka ngati mukuwonetsa pang'ono ndi luntha. Mwachitsanzo, ngati chinthu chokondana ndi mnzanu wa m'kalasi kapena wogwira nawo ntchito, funsani iye ndi pempho lililonse. Ndiuzeni kuti mwalimbikitsidwa kwa iye monga pulogalamu yabwino / katswiri pa kompyuta / pro / mobile technologist / katswiri ndi kunena kuti iye yekhayo angathandize kuthetsa vuto lanu (ganizirani izi kale). Momwemonso, ngati simukudziwa kale, nenani kuti mukuchita kafukufuku / kuphunzira / kulembera polojekiti, ndipo maganizo ake ndi ofunikira kwambiri kwa inu.
- Onetsani chidwi chanu. Imodzi mwa njira zogwira mtima kwambiri pa opaleshoni yotchedwa "Momwe mungagwirire ndi mnyamata?" Zimamveka ngati izi - muwonetseni kuti amakusamalirani. Koma mu nkhaniyi, chinthu chachikulu sikuti chikhale choposa. Sikoyenera kumuyang'ana iye ndi galu-maso, maso okhulupirika, nthawi zonse kubwereza kuti ali okonzekera chirichonse. Muyese iye - kuyang'ana mofulumira kuchokera pansi pa eyelashes, kumwetulira, mawu osokonezeka - kuti ndi okondweretsa kwa inu, koma palibe. Sonyezani kwa iye kuti simukugwirizana kwambiri ndi malingaliro awa (ngakhale ngati si choncho), zomwe zingadzutse mwa iye chilakolako chosakasaka ndi chikhumbo chokutsimikizira kwa inu kuti iye ndi woyenera kuyamikira kwanu.
- Khalani achangu. Kodi mungayambe bwanji kukondana ndi mnyamata mufupikitsa ndipo n'zotheka? N'zotheka, ngakhale kuti kudzafuna khama lalikulu. Pankhani imeneyi, zida zankhondo ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito. Mum'patse tsiku. Kuti mwayi wokhoza kuyankha moyenera kuti ukhale wapamwamba, mupatseni mwayi, zomwe sangathe kukana. Ngati iye ndi wotsutsa mpira, ndiye kuti mwangozi munakhala matikiti awiri a masewera kapena mwa mwayi wamtengo wapatali mudakhala mwini wa kubwereza kwa mwezi kwa awiri pa masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena gulu la bowling, ndipo palibe amene angapite kumeneko.
Ndi zowonjezereka zina, momwe mungagwirizane ndi mnyamata mozama komanso kwa nthawi yaitali.
- pazinthu, nthawizonse mvetserani zambiri kuposa momwe mumanenera. Mufunseni mafunso, ndikumulimbikitseni kunena zambiri za iye mwini. Pewani, musagwiritse ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
- sayansi yodzikweza yotchuka - kujambulidwa pa funso lakuti "Kodi mungagwirizane bwanji ndi mnyamata?" limalangiza kulipira mwatsatanetsatane zida zamabisika zonyenga: manja, nkhope, kugwira, kununkhiza. Ndi chithandizo chawo, yesetsani kupanga chithunzi chanu chozizwitsa ndi pang'ono pang'ono;
- muzomwe mulibe obtrusive. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi cholinga, khalani ndi chikondi ndi mnyamata kwa sabata, musamuitane tsiku lililonse, ndikufotokozera za momwe amamvera. Itanani kamodzi, pambuyo pake "mutayawonedwe" kwa masiku angapo, kumupatsa iye mwayi kuti muphonye nthawi yanu.
Kuphatikiza mwachidule zonsezi, ziyenera kukumbukira kuti kulibe, ndipo palibe yankho lokha lokha la funso lakuti "Mmene mungapangire mnyamata kugonana?", Popeza njira yabwino kwambiri yogonjetsera wokondedwa ndikutiuza ife mtima wathu wokha. Choncho musaiwale kuti mumvetsere.