M'nkhani ino, timapereka malamulo a chitukuko cha mwana kwa miyezi yambiri, yomwe mungayang'anire ngati chirichonse chikugwirizana ndi mwana wanu.
Maphunziro a kukula kwa ana mpaka chaka ndi miyezi
Mwana wakhanda amagona pafupifupi 70 peresenti ya nthawi. Iye sangathe kuchita chirichonse ndi kulira mwamtendere mu chikhomo chake ngakhale panthawi ya kuwuka, ngati alibe njala ndipo samamva bwino. Mwanayo akukonzekera kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo wake, monga, mayi weniweniyo, amene amayamba pang'ono kuyanjana ndi gawo latsopanolo.
Atatha mwezi umodzi, amayamba kugwira mutu wake kwa mphindi zingapo, kuti ayang'ane diso, poyamba pa nkhope ndi zilembo za akuluakulu, kenako pazipangizo zake, kuti amve phokoso ndi kumveka phokoso.
Panthawi imene mwanayo amatha miyezi iwiri, amakhala wodalira mutu wake, ndipo amayamba kusiyanitsa maganizo a mayiyo. Pafupi ana onse a miyezi iwiri nthawi zonse "amayenda", kumwetulira ndi kuyang'ana mawonekedwe a nkhani yomwe iwo akufuna.
Mwana wamwamuna wa miyezi itatu amagwira mutu bwino, ndipo pamakhala pamimba amayamba kudalira pamakutu. Amakokera cholembera ku zinthu zomwe zimakondweretsa ndikuyesera kuzigwira. Ambiri mwa achinyamata amadzipatula okha kumbuyo kumbali.
Pakadutsa miyezi inayi mwanayo amatsamira pa mikono yolunjika, atagona m'mimba mwake. Ambiri mwa ana omwe alibe thandizo la makolo amachoka kumbuyo kupita kumimba ndikukweza thupi lakumwamba, akuwonetsa zoyesayesa zoyamba kukhala pansi. Kawirikawiri makanda amayamba kukwawa m'mimba mwawo, ali pa rug. Mwanayo amasonyeza malingaliro owonjezera - panthawi yachisangalalo amamwetulira, amaseka mokweza ndipo nthawi zina amafuula mokondwera.
Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mwakumveka kokongola kwambiri pa kukula kwa mwana mpaka chaka. Amatha kuyenda mwachindunji kuti amuthandize pogwiritsa ntchito "jumps", kutembenukira kumbuyo kupita kumimba kumbali ziwiri zonse, komanso kuyesetsanso kuti akhale yekha. Mwana wa miyezi isanu akhoza kuopseza alendo.
Pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, pafupifupi ana onse akhala opanda thandizo, koma ochepa akhoza kukhala pansi okha. Ana ambiri ali kale pazinayi zonse ndipo amachita masewera ndi masewero, akusintha kuchokera ku dzanja limodzi. Ana ambiri ali ndi zida zawo zoyambirira.
Ana a miyezi isanu ndi iwiri sangathe kunama pamalo amodzi. Amangozungulira mosavuta, akukwawa kumbuyo ndi kutsogolo komanso molimba mtima kukhala opanda chithandizo. Zambiri zatsopano zimayambira mukulankhula.
Pakadutsa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mwanayo amatha kukhala yekha, kuimilira, kugwiritsitsa chithandizo, ndikuyenda motsatira. Ali ndi choyamba, ngakhale osadziwika, mawu, monga "amayi", "abambo" ndi "kupereka". Mwanayo akhoza kuchita zofuna, mwachitsanzo, kuvala mphete ndi ndodo ya piramidi.
Mu moyo wonse wa mwanayo m'moyo wake, zovuta zidzachitika mobwerezabwereza, pamene zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti muziyenda ndi crumb. Chimodzi mwa zovuta zotero za chitukuko cha ana mpaka chaka chimapezeka pafupifupi miyezi 9. Panthawiyi, mwanayo akuyesera kutenga zochitika zoyamba, koma zimakhala zoipa kwambiri, choncho amakhala ndi mantha nthawi zonse komanso akulira. Mothandizidwa ndi maganizo olakwika, amayesa kugwiritsa ntchito akuluakulu, ndipo nthawi zambiri makolo amapitirirabe.
Mu miyezi 10, mayi anga amakhala osavuta - mwanayo amatha kusewera payekha kwa nthawi ndithu. Kuphatikiza apo, chimbudzi chimadziŵa kuti "chosatheka" ndikuzindikira kuti ndi makolo ake amene amamuletsa.
Pa miyezi 11, ana onse amatha kusunthira, ngakhale ambiri a iwo amachita, akugwira nawo thandizo. Mkulankhula kwake pali mawu ambiri odziŵa, amamvetsa zopempha zosavuta. Kawirikawiri mu kufanana kwa zinyenyeswazi pamakhala chizindikiro chosonyeza, komanso kugwedeza mutu.
Pomaliza, ana a zaka chimodzi m'mabvuto ambiri amatha kusuntha popanda kuthandizidwa ndipo m'njira zambiri amasonyeza ufulu. Choncho, chaka chimatha kudya popanda thandizo la akuluakulu, ngakhale kuti chimakhala chosasangalatsa kwambiri.
Kuti mudziwe zambiri za magawo, kapena "makonzedwe" a chitukuko cha ana kwa miyezi yoposa 1, tebulo lotsatira lidzakuthandizani: