Banja lachinyamata likakhala ndi mwana woyamba kubadwa, akufuna kuyamba njira yolankhulana naye mwamsanga. Koma ndiye kuti mwanayo amafunikira kuyankhulana mosiyana. Osati mwa zomwe akulu amatanthauza. Ana amafanana ndi nyimbo zosavuta komanso zosavuta, kuphatikizapo zikwapu ndi maulendo. Kodi "poteshki" ndi chiyani, ndipo ndi iti yomwe imagwiritsidwa ntchito popambana ndi ana mpaka chaka?
Kodi poteshki ndi chiyani?
Kwa nthawi yaitali, dziko la Russia lapeza chuma chamtengo wapatali - chochitika chomwe chawonetsedwa mmachitidwe. Kwa nthawi yaitali, mibadwo yonse ya agogo aakazi, aakazi, amai amaika nyimbo zambiri, miseche ndi maimba okalamba.
Maswiti - izi sizongokhala zolemba zazikulu, zilembo, zomwe zimayendera limodzi ndi mwana kapena zozizwitsa zake: kuvala, kusewera.
Kodi chofunika n'chiyani?
Mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya maimba oyamwitsa angagwiritsidwe ntchito posewera ndi ana, pamene ayamba kale kuyenda mosiyana, ndipo izi zimachitika ndi amayi pamodzi ndi mwanayo, akutsatira maphunziro ndi nyimbo.
Kusunthira ndi maimba ochepetsetsa omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kusokoneza ana amathandizanso ndikumusangalatsa mwa kusintha maganizo pa chinthu. Kotero, nthawi zambiri kwa amayi ndizovuta kudyetsa kapena kusamba mwana, zomwe zimayamba kukhala capricious. Atamva poteshka yemweyo, nthawi yomweyo adatsitsimula pansi ndipo adachepetsa.
Kuonjezera apo, malemba a ana aang'ono, omwe asanakhale chaka, amapanga malo ake oyankhulirana, kugwiritsa ntchito luso labwino komanso kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe ka magalimoto, amathandizanso kukulitsa maganizo, kulimbikitsa mwanayo kuti achitepo kanthu. Kwa achikulire ambiri, amawoneka osamvetseka ndipo amawoneka opanda pake, koma amapatsa mwana chimwemwe.
Koma chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti malemba ochezera ana amathandizira kukhazikitsa chiyanjano pakati pa makolo ndi mwana kuyambira ali aang'ono, kuyambira pa kubadwa kwake.
Kodi poteshki ilipo?
Mpaka pano, mu sitolo iliyonse ya ana, amayi anga adzatha kupeza masewera a masewera ndi mavimbo a wamng'ono kwambiri. Koma, ngati mutayesa, mutha kukumbukira zomwe anthu ambiri amamva: "Ladushki", "Soroka-Beloboka", "Sely-sat", ndi zina zotero. Nazi zitsanzo za maimba oyera:
"Akudandaula"
Apa anadzuka, anatambasula,
Anatembenuka kuchokera mbali ndi mbali!
Potyagushhechki! Potyagushhechki!
Kodi toyese ali kuti?
Iwe, chidole, chiwonongeke, ukweze mwana wathu!
Kapena izi:
Kodi makutu athu ali kuti?
Kumvetsera kwa tizilombo!
Ndipo maso ali kuti?
Kuwona nthano!
Nanga mano ali kuti?
Bisani chiponji!
Chabwino, pakamwa pa loko!
Pali malamulo angapo pamene mukusewera ndi ana:
- Chitani izi panthawi inayake. Choposa zonse, zikhale maola awiri mutagona kapena nthawi ya chakudya, pamene mwana sakufuna kutsegula pakamwa pake.
- Musapitirire. Sikoyenera kuti nthawi zambiri komanso kwa nthawi yaitali agwiritse ntchito poteshki mu masewera ndi ana pamene atopa.
- Gwiritsani ntchito mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya masewera, tsiku lililonse limasiyana. Izi sizingagwiritse ntchito kwambiri zinyenyeswazi, ndipo ndibwino kuzikumbukira.
- Makolo onse awiri ayenera kusewera. Monga lamulo, amayi anga amakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka ndi mwana kusiyana ndi kugwira ntchito ndi ntchito, bambo. Ndicho chifukwa chake mwanayo safuna kusewera ndi bambo ake. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti sayenera kumvetsera mwanayo. Kusewera ndi ana ake mothandizidwa ndi maimba okalamba, mungathe kulankhulana naye mwamsanga.
Pakapita kanthawi, mwanayo amadziwa kale mtima wonse wa poteshki ndipo akhoza kubwereza mobwerezabwereza yekha atapempha pempho la makolo ake.
Kwadutsa nthawi yaitali kuchokera poyimba nyimbo zakale zowonekera kwa ana aang'ono. Koma, ngakhale zili choncho, iwo sanataye kufunikira kwake. Ndicho chifukwa chake mwana aliyense masiku ano komanso makolo ake ali ndi chidwi chachikulu komanso zosangalatsa. Komanso, atakula, mwanayo adzawauza okha. Choncho, tikhoza kunena motsimikiza kuti masewera oterewa angathandize kuti pakhale chitukuko.