Si chinsinsi kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi malo amodzi omwe amachititsa kuti umunthuwo ukhale wosiyana, mosiyana ndi iwo ozungulira. Amaperekedwa kuchokera kubadwa, chifukwa choti munthu angathe kuthetsa khalidwe lake , zochita zake, malinga ndi luso lake.
Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti mwazinthu zamaganizo timatanthawuza zinthu zomwe ziri zofunikira komanso zowonjezereka m'zochitika zawo, zomwe zimadziwika ndi kukhazikika, zowonekera m'nthaŵi inayake. Chitsanzo chodziwika bwino cha izi chitha kukhala motere: Panthawi ino nthawi ina kapena mwinamwake wina akukhumudwitsa, pamapeto pake mukhoza kuuzidwa kuti ndinu munthu wokwiya, koma ndi nthawi ino. Kuchokera pa izi, katundu wamaganizo uwu ndi wokhazikika, koma kwa nthawi inayake. Simungathe kukhala osakhutira ndi chinachake, kukwiyitsa.
Makhalidwe a umunthu waumtima
Ndizo zonse zomwe zimatchulidwa m'munsimu zomwe zimapanga maonekedwe a munthu:
1. Makhalidwe, umunthu, chikhalidwe - izi zimakhala ndi chikhalidwe mwa munthu aliyense, ndi chithunzi chokwanira, chokhazikika cha mphamvu zothandizira aliyense wa ife.
2. Zomwe munthu ali nazo, zikuwonekera mosiyanasiyana malinga ndi momwe zinthu zilili, mkhalidwe wanu ndi malo anu (mwachitsanzo, munthu akhoza kukhala womvera, kulankhulana, ntchito zamasewera).
3. Makhalidwe omwe amasonyezedwa pokhapokha pokhudzana pakati pawo monga:
- khalidwe;
- chiwonongeko;
- Zotsatira;
- maluso aumwini.
4. Malo ogulitsira malingaliro, omwe amadzimva okha pa nthawi imene mukukumana ndi yankho la zofunikira.
Malingaliro ndi malingaliro a umunthu
Ngati katundu wamatsenga ali wokha, zizolowezi zobwereza nthawi zonse, ndiye akunena momwe amagwirira ntchito, kudalira pa mphindi yapadera. Amapereka chikhalidwe cha psyche, chozikidwa pa makhalidwe, ntchito, ndi zina. Iwo amasiyanasiyana malinga ndi:
- mawonekedwe aumtima (chimwemwe, kukhumudwa, etc.);
- msinkhu wa nkhawa;
- kukonda;
- amanena (zabwino, zoipa);
- mzimu;
- Kutalika kwa boma (kosatha kapena kanthawi).
Makhalidwe monga chuma chamatsenga cha munthu
Khalidwe - njira yothetsera khalidwe laumunthu, malinga ndi moyo wa munthu. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, khalidweli ndi mbali inayake ya psyche yake. Mmenemo mbali za kulera kwake, kudzipangira yekha, kusonkhana pamodzi kumakhazikitsidwa. Zina mwa mikhalidwe yomwe ikutsogolera ndiyo khalidwe lalikulu. Chofunikira ndi chofunika kwambiri pa makhalidwe a khalidwe ndizokhazikitsira mbali zake zonse. Ngati vutoli litakwaniritsidwa, munthu yemwe ali ndi chiyanjano ali ndi chidaliro pa luso lake, amadziwa momwe angakwaniritsire zolinga zake, pomwe akutsatira ndondomeko yake.
Maluso, monga malo amalingaliro a umunthu
Zolinga zimapangitsa kuti munthu aliyense akhale wopambana mu nthambi imodzi ya moyo, ntchito. Chikhalidwe chachikulu cha kutsimikiza kwawo ndi:
- zochitika zowona, kugwirizana kwachangu kwa munthu payekha;
- khalidwe (luso lokhala ndi malingaliro amodzi, kudzikweza, kudzikuza mphamvu, kupirira, etc.).
Chifukwa cha luso lake, munthu amatha kukhala ndi malingaliro amodzi a ma psychic.
Ndiyenera kutchula kuti kupanga ndi maziko a chitukuko chawo. Mwa njira, izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pakubereka, ndiko kuti, ndizo ziwalo za thupi.