Chowonadi n'chakuti atsikana alibe chikondi, kudzichepetsa, kuleza mtima, ndi anyamata - kukhazikika maganizo ndi kupirira. Ana poyamba samvetsa momwe mkazi ayenera kukhalira ndi makhalidwe omwe munthu ayenera kukhala nawo. Choncho, ngati simutenga zoyenera, amayi amtsogolo adzatayika konse chibadwa cha amayi awo, ndipo Adadi - kuzindikira kwawo kofunika monga mutu wa banja. Pachifukwa ichi, kufunika kwa maphunziro a chiwerewere a ana a sukulu , ana a sukulu ndi achinyamata akukula tsiku ndi tsiku.
Maphunziro a abambo a ana oyambirira
Pafupifupi kuyambira zaka ziwiri, ana amayamba kuzindikira khalidwe lawo lachikazi, pafupi ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri (7) amakhala ndi kukhazikika kwa amai - kumvetsetsa kuti msungwana amakula ndikukhala mkazi, mayi, ndi mnyamata mwamuna, bambo. Choncho, zolinga zazikulu za maphunziro a chiwerewere a ana a sukulu ndi kuphunzitsa mwanayo zinthu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kugonana kwake. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, pakukonzekera khalidwe labwino, aphunzitsi ndi makolo, zomwe zimaphatikizidwa ndi ziwalo za ana osiyana-siyana aziyenera kuganiziridwa. Mwachitsanzo, musaiwale kuti:
- Atsikana amakhudzidwa ndi choloŵa chawo, ndipo mwa anyamata - ndi chilengedwe;
- Atsikana a msinkhu wa msinkhu amakhala osowa kwambiri, akulimbana bwino ndi ntchito zowonongeka, anyamata ali ndi chidziwitso chochuluka;
- ana savomereza vuto la khalidwe, kotero kusagwirizana ndi zochitika za amuna ndi akazi kumabweretsa mavuto ena.
Komanso pothandizira maphunziro a abambo a anyamata ndi atsikana , wina ayenera kuganizira kuti ali ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kuzindikira. Ngati asungwana ali ndi zolemba zambiri, ndiye anyamata - owoneka.
Maphunziro a abambo a ana a sukulu ndi achinyamata
Ntchito za maphunziro a amai pazaka izi zacheperapo:
- kulumikizana bwino kwa kugonana pakati pa kugonana;
- kukonzekera banja ndi ukwati;
- Kukula kwa chikhalidwe cha ubale ndi maganizo, monga ubwenzi, chikondi, kukhulupirika, ntchito, udindo, chifundo ndi ena.
Komabe, pakukonzekera maphunziro a amuna, sizingatheke kuyika zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mwanayo azikula komanso kukula kwa luso lapadera la mwanayo ngati ali ndi khalidwe lachilombo.