Momwe mungakhalire wopanda chifundo?

Mpaka posachedwa, amakhulupirira kuti mtsikana ayenera kukhala wodzichepetsa komanso wamanyazi. Koma lero, anthu ogwira ntchito ndi olimba mtima akudziwika bwino. Ndipo izi ndi zomwe kugonana kwabwino kumafuna kukhala. Komabe, si aliyense amene angakwanitse kukwaniritsa cholinga ichi, chifukwa sikuti mtsikana aliyense amadziwa kukhala wolimba komanso wowala. Ngakhale izi sizili zovuta, ndizofunikira kuti mudzipangire nokha pang'ono.

Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale olimba mtima?

Malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, "tsabola" ali mwa mtsikana aliyense. Mukungofuna kuti mutsegule. Wina akhoza kuchita izi popanda vuto lalikulu chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chokwanira ndi chikhalidwe cha chilengedwe. Koma ngati simukudzidalira nokha, ndinu wamanyazi, ndiye mutha kuthetsa vuto la momwe mungakhalire msungwana wokondeka, ndiye muyenera kumvetsera malangizo a akatswiri.

1. Khalani cheeky, koma moyenera - osati wonyansa komanso wamwano, koma moona mtima komanso moona mtima, musachite mantha kuseka ndi anthu, kumwetulira pa nthabwala za wina ndikuyankha; Musamayerekezere kuti zonse ziri mu dongosolo, ngati siziri chomwecho, musakhale osayanjanitsika.
2. Musawope kukhala osamvetsetsa, kuiwala za mawu opembedzera ndi kumwetulira, nthawi zonse! Msungwanayo sakhala chete, koma ngati samva bwino, adzanena molunjika.
3. Phunzirani kukhala wochenjera. Ngati mwataya luso limeneli mwachilengedwe, yesetsani kukhala nokha mwa kuloweza malemba, mawu omveka bwino, ma-aphorisms. Tsiku lirilonse, mutaya mitu yanu yomwe mungathe kuziwonekera ndi kuwongolera kwa malingaliro, ndipo mutha kuyankha mofananamo kwa woyimilira payekha.
4. Khalani wodalira kwambiri mwa inu nokha, kuti musadalire malingaliro a wina. Ziyenera kuyamba ndi kunja, chifukwa makamaka zimadzipangitsa kudzilemekeza . Mtsikana wodandaula saopa kuvala mosiyana, monga wina aliyense, kuvala zomwe amakonda, kukhala ndi maonekedwe ake apadera.
5. Musawope kuti muzisonyeza. Dziwani nokha, koma musakhale kuseka.

Kodi mungakhale bwanji chidutswa cholimba?

Kawirikawiri awo omwe akufuna yankho ku funso la momwe angakhalire msungwana wamng'ono, ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe angakhalire chidontho. Pambuyo pake, chithunzichi chimatchuka kwambiri ndi anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo.

Kuthamanga ndipamwamba kwambiri pamalopo. Kuti mukwaniritse, muyenera:

• Khalani odzikonda - koposa zonse muzidziyika nokha ndi zikhumbo zanu;
• kukhala pofigistkoy - mwamtheradi kunyalanyaza kuyang'anitsitsa sidelong;
• Lekani kukhala waulesi, credo yanu ndi mphamvu ndi ntchito mu chirichonse;
• kukhala weniweni - osayang'ana kuwona dziko lapansi mu pinki, khalani okayikira.