Momwe mungamvetsere chifundo cha munthu wachikulire?

Sikuti anthu onse akufulumira kuvomereza chikondi chomwe amamverera kwa mkazi. Chifukwa cha ichi chikhoza kukhala manyazi kapena kudzikayikira. Ndipo akuluakulu oimira kugonana amphamvu amakhala, ndipo amaletsa kwambiri kuti awonekere . Koma dona weniweni ayenera kudziwa yankho la funsolo, kumvetsetsa chifundo cha munthu wokhwima. Kuchita izi sikovuta kwambiri, mumangomuyang'anitsitsa.

Kodi kumvetsetsa ndi chiyani kwa mwamuna kwa mkazi?

Zizindikiro za chifundo kwa amuna a msinkhu wokongola kwambiri m'zinthu zambiri zofanana ndi momwe oimira achinyamata omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana amasonyezera malingaliro awo. Pano pano pali zochepa zochititsa mantha komanso kukwezedwa. Kukhala ndi chidaliro chochuluka, ulemu ndi manja okongola.

Zizindikiro za chifundo chobisika kwa mwamuna ndizo zotsatirazi:

• Iye amakusiyanitsani momveka bwino kuchokera kwa gulu la anthu, amayanjanitsiranso pamene mukuwoneka, akuyamba kunena nthabwala, mofuula kuti alankhule, amadziwa kuti akukumana ndi iwe ndikudziyang'ana yekha;
• akukumana nanu, amayamba kusintha makapu ake, malaya, tsitsi, kukokera batani, wotchi, etc;
• pamsonkhano uliwonse adzakuyang'anirani kuyambira mutu ndi phazi, ngati ophunzira adakula - amakukonda kwambiri;
• amayesa kukukhudzani, osadzidziwa yekha - kumuthandiza ndi goli, kupereka dzanja kuti athandizike, etc;
• fulumira kuti mupereke jekete lako, ngati iwe uzindikira kuti iwe ndiwe ozizira pang'ono;
• pamene akuyankhula ndi inu mu liwu lake amalembetsa zolemba zofewa, ndipo amavomereza mwamsanga, ngati panthawi ino akusocheretsedwa ndi munthu wina kunja.

Kodi kumvetsetsa kwa munthu wa msinkhu wokalamba kumawonekera bwanji?

Chifundo cha munthu wachikulire chikhoza kutsimikiziridwa ndi zizindikiro zapamwambazi, koma ndizotheka kuti muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa kwambiri chikhalidwe cha ubale wanu.

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe munthu wotere amamvera, ndiye kuli koyenera kumvetsera, choyamba, njira yomwe imasunthira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwangozi adakuwonani mumsewu ndipo mwamsanga anapita kumbali yanu, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizika cha ubale wake wapadera.

Munthu wokhwima amadziwa zambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri. Chifukwa chake kuzizira kwake ndi kudziletsa kwake. Choncho, ngati pali ziphuphu zomwe zikuwonekera m'maso mwanu pamene akuwoneka, ndipo osachepetsedwa pang'ono, ichi ndi chizindikiro chowona cha chifundo chake. Zomwezo zingagwirizane ngati akupitirizabe kuyesayesa kugonana ndi amuna ena, mosadziŵa adzakutetezani ku malingaliro awo, amayesetsa kuti mutenge chidwi chanu chonse.