Ngati moyo waumwini sungowonjezera, ndiye kuti phokoso limalimbikitsa mwamuna ndi mkazi kuti adziwone mofulumira. Koma pa chifukwa china palibe wa alangizi amauza kumene angadziwe bwino munthu wabwino. Monga ngati izi zili zophweka! Pa malo ochezera a chibwenzi akukumana kwambiri ndi okonda misonkhano pa usiku umodzi, m'zipinda zapakhomo ndi mipiringidzo zofanana ndizo, osati mumzinda womwewo kupita ndi chizindikiro "kufuna munthu mwamsanga, kutchula zonse." Koma zonse sizoipa, pali malo omwe mumadziwana nawo kwambiri, mumangofunikira kuleza mtima ndi mwayi wambiri.
Kodi ndingadziwe kuti munthu wovuta?
Musanapite kukafunafuna munthu wina, muyenera kudzipangira yekha zithunzi zake. Mwachitsanzo, atsikana nthawi zambiri amalimbikitsidwa kuti apite ku masewera a masewera, chifukwa kawirikawiri amakhala owonjezeka a amuna. Koma pitani kumeneko kokha ngati mwakonzeka kuti muwone pafupi ndi mwamuna yemwe amakonda kwambiri masewera. Ngati simukuzikonda magulu onsewa a mafani, ndipo nthawi zonse mumasinthitsa njirayo, mukuyesa kufalitsa pa masewera, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti musamafufuze mbaliyi. Kodi ndikuti kuti mudziwe bwino munthu wabwino?
- Ntchito . Chikondi cha paofesi, ndithudi, si njira yabwino, koma palibe amene amakukakamizani kuyang'ana anzanu. Mosakayika palinso maofesi pafupi, kumene tsogolo lanu likhoza kukhala. Kuonjezerapo, ngati mukuganiza komwe mungadziŵe munthu wolemera, ndiye ofesi ndi malo abwino kwambiri. Pano inu mumamveka bwino kuti ali ndi chikhalidwe chotani, ndipo anzanu angaphunzire zambiri za iye.
- Maphunziro a kudzikonda . Sikofunika kwambiri kuti zikhale: phunziro la pulofesa wolemekezeka pa nkhani ya chidwi, maphunziro a chinenero chachilendo kapena maphunziro, mukhoza kupeza anthu atsopano kulikonse. Musakane kuyankhulana ndi atsikana, mwadzidzidzi ali ndi mchimwene wodabwitsa kapena banjali la ubwana?
- Gulani . Amuna okondweretsa okha amapitanso kugula, angophunzira kuyang'ana pozungulira. Mukhoza kudziwana bwino, paliponse, njira yosangalatsa idzakhala yosungiramo mabuku. Pano muli ndi mwayi wowonera zokonda za mwamuna ndikuyamba kukambirana ndi munthu wokondweretsa amene akuyesetsa kuti adziŵe. Ngakhale kuti kunyalanyaza kwakukulu kuyenera kumasiyidwa pakhomo, nthawi zambiri timawerenga mabuku, osati apamwamba kwambiri, kuti tithe kumasula ubongo.
- Chiwonetsero . Ngati mulibe chidwi ndi nkhaniyo, ndiye kuti ndiyetu muyenera kumvetsera njirayi. Amuna ambiri amakopeka ndi zambiri zokhudza zochitika zakale, makamaka ngati akunena za nkhondo. Kumbukirani izi mukasankha ulendo.
- Gulu la Fitness . Ngati mwatopa kuganiza za amuna omwe ali ndi mimba, moona mtima mukudziganizira kuti ndizosatheka kuganiza za mkazi, ndiye pitani ku kampani yolimbitsa thupi. Zoonadi, palinso onse Apolo, koma anthuwa samakhala pabedi ndi paketi ya chips, kudandaula za ntchito. Njirayi ndi yoyenera ngati mukufuna kudziwa komwe mungakudziwe ndi munthu wolemera. ngati mutapeza ndalama zogula zolembetsa, ndiye kuti china chirichonse sichili choipa.
- Club ya zofuna . Amuna ambiri ali ndi zokondweretsa zomwe zimawapatsa mpumulo kuchokera kuntchito. Choncho, sankhani zosangalatsa za munthu, zomwe ziri zosangalatsa kwa inu, ndipo pitani kukafufuza anthu atsopano.
- Chiwonetsero . Mukafunsidwa komwe mungakumane ndi munthu wopambana, nthawi zambiri amayankha ndi ndemanga kuti apite kuwonetsero, chiwonetsero, chowonetsero cha zisudzo kapena nyimbo ya nyimbo.
- Internet . Sitikunena za malo ochezera, ngakhale kuti mukhoza kuyesa kudzipeza nokha. Chinthu china ndi chakuti nthawi zambiri kufufuza koteroko kumatenga nthawi yochuluka, pali okhutira ambiri pazinthu zosayenera. Choncho ndi bwino kupita kumalo ena. Mwachitsanzo,
Ngati muli ndi galimoto, pitani ku tsamba loyenera, ndizosavuta kuyamba kukambirana, funsani malangizo kapena fotokozani maganizo anu ngati mumvetsa mutuwo.
Ndipo potsiriza, kulikonse kumene mungasankhe kudziwana ndi munthu wabwino, musayambe chilakolako chimenechi poyamba. Pitani ku maphunzirowo, khalani ndi chidwi pa phunzirolo. Amuna mwamsanga amadziwa wonyenga, amene amadziyesa kukhala wofunitsitsa kupeza awiri. Ndipo oimira "osaka" otere a theka lachilungamo la anthu sakonda ndi mantha.