Kugonana kwa mkazi

Amayi onse a chiwerewere akufuna kukonda amuna. Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti amayi akufuna kuti anthu azifunsira chinthu chosayenera kwa iwo. Ayi, akazi okongola sangakhale osowa kapena osowa. Akazi ogonana amakhala chinthu choyamika, kukhumba, amatsatiridwa ndi kuyang'ana, amatsatiridwa ndi mayamiko. Kugonana kwa amayi kumapindula pogwiritsa ntchito choonadi chodziwika bwino cha psychology ya kugonana.

Psychology of sexuality

Kwa nthawi yoyamba Freud analankhula za nkhani yosamvetsetseka. Mwa lingaliro lake, kugonana kumapanga maziko a moyo ndi maganizo monga choncho. Anatanthauzanso mgwirizano pakati pa mtundu wa umunthu ndi mfundo zopanda pake, kuziwonetsera m'nkhani zake pa psychology za kugonana . Anatha kumanga anthu, otchedwa "System-Vector Psychology." Anagawira zinsinsi zina zokhudza kugonana, makamaka malo okwana asanu ndi atatu, omwe akugwirizana ndi machitidwe a mucous a thupi. Zigawozi ndizo zikuluzikulu za kugonana.

Psycholoji ya kugonana kwa Freud imatanthawuza magawo anayi apansi ndi anayi, kutanthauza mtundu wa kugonana:

1. Zigawo zochepa: chiwerewere, anal, muscular, uchembe.
2. Kummwera: zomveka, zooneka, zamlomo, zomveka.

Kudziwa kalembedwe kameneka kumathandiza aliyense kuti adziŵe za khalidwe la kugonana ndi mnzakeyo ndikudziwitsani ngati zikukuyenererani.

Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti m'munsimu muli ndi udindo wokhudzidwa, kukopa, chilakolako ndi chikondi . Mkazi aliyense ali ndi chiwerewere chachibadwa, koma ambiri angakonde kuti kugonana uku kunali nako kuwonekera kwakukulu. Choncho, amayesa njira zosiyanasiyana kuti adziwe zambiri zokhudza chitukuko cha kugonana ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira zovomerezeka.

Kukula kwa chiwerewere

Mayi aliyense ayenera kukumbukira mfundo zingapo pa mutu uwu:

1. Mayi ayenera kukhala wokonzeka bwino, atavala bwino. Mkazi amene amadzisankha yekha mwaluso amatsindika zithumwa za chifaniziro, amabisala zofooka.
2. Mkaziyo ndi wokoma mtima ndipo ngakhale ali ndi mawonekedwe opanda ungwiro ali ndi ubwino wokongola, ngati amadziyang'ana yekha ndikupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi.
3. Mayiyo ayenera kukhala wodabwitsa komanso wodabwitsa (tiyeni tingonena kuti, nzeru zazimayi ndi mawonekedwe achikulire ndi achigololo).
4. Mayi monga mkango wamphongo amafuna kulakalaka ndipo maganizo ake amamupangitsa kukhala wokongola kwambiri.

Kumbukirani kuti kugonana mwa inu nokha kuyenera kukonzedwa. Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi, choyamba mkazi aliyense ayenera kudzikonda yekha ndi kulemekeza ulemu wake.