Ngati simukufuna kuti chiwonongeko chanu chiwononge banja, muyenera kuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke komanso zosatheka, kuti mwamuna asadziwe. Ngati zonse zoganiziridwa bwino ndikutsatira ndondomekoyi, ndiye kuti mwayi wolephera umachepetsedwa.
Khalani ngati kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika
Kawirikawiri, kukhudzika kwa akazi kumakhudza khalidwe. Ntchito yanu ndizochita mwachibadwa monga momwe mungathere, osati kusintha makhalidwe anu. Kuti mudziwe nokha kuti mwamuna wanu asakhalepo, muyenera kukhala ndi ndondomeko yobwerera. Mwachitsanzo, muuzeni kuti mu salon yokongola mumakumana ndi mayi yemwe tsopano wakhala bwenzi lanu lenileni. Ndi bwino kuti mumudziwe naye. Potero, poyesa kukomana ndi mnzanu mukhoza kubisa chiwembu. Kawirikawiri, amayi amadziimba mlandu ndikuyesera kuti apereke kwa mwamuna wake, kusonyeza kuti amakhala ndi udindo wochuluka komanso wosamalidwa, zomwe zimakayikira kwambiri. Dziyeseni nokha, ntchito yanu ndi kukhala wodekha komanso wokwanira.
Sungani chinsinsi
Ngakhale mutaganiza kuti zibwenzi zanu ndi zabwino kwambiri, ndipo sizidzaperekedwa, kusakhulupirika kumakhala kosungidwa bwino, popeza pali zochepa zomwe zingachitike. Eya, ngati mutagwiritsabe ntchito, chitetezeni mtsikanayo pamisonkhano mukakhala ndi mwamuna wake.
Sintha njira
Perekani msonkhano wokonda kumapeto ena a mzinda kuti musamapite naye kumasitolo omwewo, malo odyera ndi mipiringidzo yomwe mumapita ndi mwamuna wanu. Popeza antchito a mabungwe angakuchititseni mwadzidzidzi, mwachitsanzo, "Kodi mungayambe, monga mwachizoloŵezi?" Kapena "Kodi agubu munagula bwanji sabata ino?".
Inu munapezeka
Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna kapena abwenzi adakuwonani ndi munthu wosadziwika. Pachifukwa ichi, kungodzidalira nokha kudzakuthandizani, muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti ndinu wosalakwa ndipo kenako mwamuna asanakhale wolungamitsa, wodetsedwa komanso wodandaula. Ndikufuna kumuuza kuti uyu ndi bwenzi lakale lomwe linafika kudziko lakwawo, ndipo mwakumana mwangozi. Ngati izi zanenedwa motsimikiza, komanso kachiwiri, ndikudzudzula mwamuna wake chifukwa cha kusakhulupirira, ndiye kuti ndondomekoyi idzagwira ntchito.
Bisani zinthu zanu zatsopano
Ngati wokondedwayo akuphunzitsani kumvetsa magalimoto kapena vinyo wotsika mtengo, ndiye kuti simusowa kugawana nzeru ndi mwamuna wanu, chifukwa adzakondwera kwambiri kumene mwaphunzira izi. Dzikani nokha ku bedi ndi mwamuna wanu, musamuwonetse iye "machenjerero" atsopano omwe wokondedwa amakonda kwambiri.
Ndalama zokha
Ngati mumalipira chinachake pamisonkhano ndi wokondedwa wanu, musagwiritse ntchito ngongole kapena njira zina zolipilira zomwe mungathe kuzilemba ndi ndalama, kulipira kokha.
Musasiye zochitika
Samalani nokha, sungani chinsinsi. Chotsani mauthenga, kuyitana, mu dzina la bukhu la foni dzina lachikazi, pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti musawonjezere kwa abwenzi, kawirikawiri, palibe mfundo zachinyengo. Ngati mwakacheza kamodzi, ndipo mwamuna wake amaona chinthu chachilendo, ndiye kubisala kumakhala kovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pa misonkhano ndi wokondedwa wanu, sambani musanafike kunyumba, simukusowa fungo la munthu wina mnyumbamo. Musamakankhire mwamuna wanu, kugonana, kumaliza maholo anu onse pamodzi ndi banja lanu, nthawi zonse muyankhe maitanidwe ake ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi muzipanga zolakwika zokhudzana ndi chiwembu.
Sungani mtunda
Musamuuze wokondedwa wanu kumene mukugwira ntchito, adiresi yokhalamo ndi zina zotero. Mwinamwake iye sikuti amangogonana basi ndipo akufuna kukhala ndi nkhani yaikulu ndi mwamuna wanu, zomwe ziri zosayenera.
Kutsiliza
Tsopano mukudziwa momwe mungabisire kumenyana ndi mnzanuyo. Koma chimodzimodzi musanachite izi, ganizirani, zingakhale zophweka kugwira ntchito ndi mwamuna ndi kubwezeretsa chikondi ndi chilakolako kuposa kuwayang'ana pabedi ndi wina.