Chikondi Chiphunzitso

Tinkakhulupirira kuti tanthauzo la chikondi n'zosatheka kupereka. Inde, pokhala m'chikondi - izi sizingatheke, chifukwa timadandaula ndi maganizo ambiri kuti tizimvetse. Koma asayansi aakulu, okhudzidwa ndi kusatsimikizika uku, anayamba kupanga malingaliro achikondi zaka mazana angapo zapitazo. Woyamba anali Plato.

Chikhulupiriro cha Plato

Chiphunzitso cha chikondi cha Plato chimayikidwa mu zokambirana za "Phwando". Chifukwa cha chikondi kwa Plato - chikhumbo cha kukongola. Komabe, Plato wokondeka samatsutsa zachikondi cha chikondi-ichi ndi chilakolako cha kukongola, komanso kuzindikira kwake kochepa.

Anakhulupirira kuti izi zikhoza kufotokozedwa ndi chiyambi chathu. Mizimu yathu inabweretsa chikondi kuchokera ku dziko lopatulika, lokhazikika, ndipo maganizo apadziko lapansi sangathe kukwaniritsa chikondi chakumwamba, kukhala ngati chiwonongeko. Choncho, malingana ndi Plato, chikondi ndi chovulaza komanso chabwino. Zabwino zonse zomwe ziri m'chikondi, zili ndi chiyambi choyambirira, zonse zoipa.

Malo awa a Plato nthawi zambiri amatchedwa chiphunzitso cha chikondi chaulere. Pofuna kufotokoza tanthawuzo la mawuwo, m'pofunika kubwereza kuchokera ku "Phwando" lake:

"... kukwera chifukwa cha okongola kwambiri - kuchokera thupi limodzi mpaka awiri, kuchokera awiri mpaka onse, ndiyeno kuchokera ku matupi okongola kupita ku miyambo yokongola ...".

Anali otsimikiza kuti tikamakonda kwenikweni, timadwala kwambiri.

Chiphunzitso cha Freud

Chiphunzitso cha Sigmund Freud chokhudza chikondi mwachizolowezi chimachokera pa zochitika zaunyamata, zomwe, ngakhale ziiwalika, zingakhudze khalidwe lathu m'njira iliyonse. Zomwe (kukumbukira kwa ana) - zili mkati mwa ubongo wa munthu aliyense, kuchokera kumeneko amatsogolera ndikutsogolera ku mawonetseredwe osiyanasiyana.

Choyamba, Freud adalengedwa, mwa kuchita, "dikishonale" yothetsa zikhumbo zoyambirira za ubwana ndi akuluakulu ena. Izi zikutanthauza kuti adapereka tanthawuzo ndi tanthauzo la ntchito zathu zazikulu.

Freud akuyamba chiphunzitso chake cha chikondi m'maganizo ndi mfundo yakuti kuyambira ubwana timaletsedwa ku zomwe timakonda. Mwana wamwamuna wa miyezi iwiri amakonda kutumiza zosowa zake akamakonda, koma amamukakamiza kuti adzidziwe yekha. Mwana wazaka 4 amakonda kukonda, kuyankhula ndi misonzi, koma akuuzidwa kuti misonzi ndi ya ana aang'ono. Ndipo ali ndi zaka zisanu, anyamata ambiri amakonda kusewera ndi ziwalo zawo zogonana, kachiwiri amaletsa.

Kotero, mwanayo amazoloŵera kuchita zimenezo ngati akufuna kusunga chikondi cha amayi ake, makolo ake, ayenera kusiya zomwe amadzikonda yekha. Ndipo mphamvu yakukhudzidwa ndi zilakolako izi zomwe zimakumbukira zolakalaka, zomwe anthu akuluakulu samakumbukira, zimadalira momwe moyo wa munthu ulili wabwino. Choncho, ena amakula kukhala umunthu wokhwima maganizo , ena akuyang'ana njira yokonzekera ubwana wawo akufuna miyoyo yawo yonse.