Mlendo ndi chiyeso kwa amayi osakwatira omwe amakhalabe paubwenzi wabwino ndi iye. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono ubwenzi umenewo umakula kukhala chinthu chachikulu. Ngakhale mwambi wotchuka umati: "Simungathe kumanga chimwemwe pa tsoka la wina" ndipo aliyense akufuula "musakhudze mwamuna wa wina", nthawi zambiri mkazi saimitsa.
Kutenga mwamuna kunja kwa banja sikophweka. Pali mtundu wa amuna omwe "sanapite." Iwo akhoza kuyesedwa ndi kuvomereza kugonana kosakhalitsa, koma sankhani kusintha kwa dziko lonse ndi kusiya nyumba yabwino komanso kukonda mkazi sungathe aliyense.
Amayi ambiri amavomereza momveka bwino kuti: "Ndimakonda mwamuna wa munthu wina" kapena "Ndikufuna mwamuna wa wina", koma kodi ndi choncho? Musanayese kutsogolera munthu kuganiza, kodi mukufunikira? Ndi chifukwa chanji chomwe mwasankha kuti mutengepo? Ngati mukulimbikitsidwa ndi chilakolako chomenyana ndi mkazi wovomerezeka, gonjetsani phokoso kapena kudzidalira nokha, ndiye ichi sichiri cholimbikitsa kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, mutatha kukhala ndi wonyengerera ndipo mwamsanga kapena mtsogolomu izo zidzatsogolera mkazi wina wamng'ono ndi wokongola kwambiri.
Momwe mungamenyere mwamuna wa munthu wina?
Inde, mukhoza kupita ndi njira yosavuta - kulumpha mwamuna wa wina. Komabe, njira imeneyi imatha nthawi zonse. Privorot ayenera kuthandizidwa ndipo ngati tsiku lina mumayiwala kudyetsa, mumayika kutaya munthu kamodzi. Kuonjezera apo, kuchokera kumagulu otere amuna nthawi zambiri amadwala kwambiri.
Mwamuna wa mlendo ndi mkazi wa mnzanu - mbanja omwe, kaya ndi chizoloŵezi kapena chifukwa cha ana awo, amakhala pamodzi, koma maganizo awo akhala atakhazikika pansi. Momwe mungapezere mwamuna wa munthu wina? Ngakhale mu mkhalidwe uno, sizomveka kupeza munthu, koma akadakali kotheka. Kuti muchite izi, nthawi zonse mukhalepo, mulimbikitseni kugonana, mvetserani mwatcheru, koma musakhale naye bwenzi labwino ndipo makamaka musamamukwiyitse munthu - palibe yemwe amakonda kumvetsera zokambirana pa foni ndi mwamuna wina.
Ngati kusaka kwa amuna ena amayamba kukhala chizoloŵezi, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro chenicheni cha mavuto apakhomo. Kawirikawiri amavomereza akazi a razluchnitsy, ndi kudzichepetsa kwambiri. Ndipo kulera izo mu chithunzi chotero sizingatheke.