Mkazi wamkazi amawongoledwa kotero kuti, chifukwa cha chidzalo cha moyo ndi chisangalalo, amafunikira zizindikiro zowonetsera, kuyamikira, mawu aulemu ndi kuyamikira pamaso pa munthu. Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tione zenizeni za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Pambuyo pokhala nambala yeniyeni muukwati, pafupifupi mkazi aliyense amakhala ambuye, amayi, chisamaliro ndi chithandizo kwa mwamuna wake ndi ana ake. Ndipo pa nthawi yomweyi, ndikuiwala kuti iye akadakali wamng'ono, wokongola, wokondweretsa komanso woyenera kuyamikira. Inde, ndipo kugonana ndi mwamuna wake sikubweretsa chisangalalo, koma kukhala chizolowezi, ndipo nthawizina ntchito. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani?
Muzochitika zoterezi, pali njira ziwiri zopezera - kukonza ubale ndi mwamuna wake kapena kupeza munthu wina. Musanasankhe chisankho, mkazi aliyense amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta ya chikumbumtima ndi kukayikira za momwe angakhalire wokondedwa, ngati muli wokwatira, pokhala ndi banja komanso ubale ndi mwamuna wake.
Kodi mungapeze bwanji wokonda?
Kotero, atadzifunsitsa okha funso ndi chikumbumtima ndi chikhalidwe, mkazi akuganiza kuti apeze munthu wina. Koma apo ndiyeno ndikukumana ndi vuto latsopano, momwe mungapezere wokonda ndi kumene mungayambe.
Kuti mupeze wokonda, monga momwe maganizo amasiku ano amachitira, si ovuta kwambiri, koma pali zikhomo zochepa. Pomwepo ndikofunikira kuthetsa kusiyana kwa bukuli pa ntchito kapena utumiki, musayang'ane pakati pa anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo ndipo musamaganizire za abwenzi a mwamuna wanu. Mabuku oterowo ndi owopsa kwambiri powonekera, ndipo chifukwa chachisokonezo ndikutheka kuwonongeka kwa banja. Kuyanjana pa intaneti pa malo oyenera kumadza ndi msonkhano ndi anthu odzudzula osati anthu okwanira.
Malo abwino a buku ndi malo ovina kapena ozungulira. M'malo otero mpweya wokha uli ndi malingaliro achikondi ndi ubale wapamtima. Komanso mungathe kukomana ndi munthu woyenera muzipinda zozizira, masewera ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi. Chenjezo loyamba ndiloti musayambe kutenga nawo mbali, kugwa m'chikondi, ndipo konzekerani zam'mbuyo, monga kukondana ndi kukondana sikungatsimikizire ubale wodalirika mtsogolomu.