Zirizonse zomwe zimamveka ndi maubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, palibe munthu yemwe ali ndi inshuwalansi kuchokera ku zolekanitsa zowawa ndi zakuphatikizana. Omwe akuimira gawo labwino la umunthu amaganiza kuti chifukwa chiyani amuna nthawi zina amatha kubwerera, komanso sayansi ya psychology. Ndipotu, sizingatheke kuti timvetsetse cholinga chake. Pambuyo pa zomwe ndinayenera kupirira, sindimayesetsa kuti ndilowe m'nyumba mwanga, mtima ndi moyo wa munthu yemwe adasiya zonse ndikusiya.
Chifukwa chake abambo amabwerera pambuyo pogawa - zifukwa zazikulu
- Choyamba, tiyeni tikambirane nkhaniyi atatha kunena kuti: "Tifunika kugawana", zakhala miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, kapena ngakhale chaka. Kotero, mosayembekezereka kwa inu nokha, mudzapeza kuti okhulupilira anu akale mwa kuyanjana kwanu mukuyesera kupeza momwe mukuchitira, momwe mukukhalira, komanso mwachangu, momwe moyo wanu wasinthira nthawi zonse. Komanso, posakhalitsa amajambulira nambala yanu, kapena angayendere alendo. Tiyeni tinene kuti zinachitika, koma simukumva mau achisoni. Zikatero, mukudziwa, iye akufuna kukhala bwenzi lanu, munthu amene mungadalirepo, kapena kubwerera chifukwa cha chidwi chodziwika bwino.
- Zaka zinadutsa, pamene inu simuli limodzi. Mabala odzipereka amachiritsidwa, koma panali zipsera. Tsiku lina, mukadzabwera kuchokera kuntchito, pakhomo mudzamuwona, munthu amene wakhala akudzipereka nthawi yochuluka komanso amene adagawana nawo nthawi yabwino ndi moyo wake. Zonse zomwe iye
nenani: "Ndikhululukireni ine. Tiyeni tiyesere poyamba. " Pankhaniyi, sanatchule kuti anakhala wanzeru, anakonzanso maganizo ake pa moyo. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, yemwe kale ankakonda akhoza kutsutsa chifukwa chake anaganiza zobwerera. - Kuwongolera mwatsatanetsatane funso la chifukwa chake, ndipo patatha nthawi yomwe munthu amabwerera, psychology imanena kuti nthawi zambiri, amuna sali osiyana ndi omwe ndi mkazi wake wakale amathera nthawi. Akazindikira kuti mtima wake watengedwa ndi wina, nsanje imamuwonekera nthawi yomweyo. Amayambiranso kuchita zimenezi, akuwononga ndalama zambiri, mphamvu ndi mphamvu. Akazi amene ali mu mkhalidwe umenewu, chinthu chachikulu nthawi yomweyo sichimasonyeza kuti mumamukhululukira ndipo ndinu wokonzeka kupereka mwayi wachiwiri.