Kukongola akadali mphamvu, komabe ngakhale chilengedwe chikupatsani mphatso yamtengo wapatali, iyenera kuyamikiridwa, kuyamikiridwa ndi kuyamikiridwa. Kukongola kwa chilengedwe kwa mtsikana ali ndi chizoloŵezi chofota m'kupita kwa nthawi, koma ngati wina akuyembekeza kuti "zamoyo zabwino" zikhale zabwino. Aliyense wa ife ayenera kudziwa malamulo ena omwe angathandize kukhalabe okongola komanso okongola.
Zinsinsi zazikulu za kukongola kwa atsikana zimadziwika kwa nthawi yaitali. Imeneyi ndiyo chakudya choyenera, ndi kugona kwabwino, ndi kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kodi ena amamvetsera chiyani, akuwoneka maonekedwe athu? Choyamba, pa nkhope. Ngati zizindikiro zake zapatsidwa, ndiye kuti chikopa ndi chisonyezero cha chisamaliro chake. Malo achiwiri ndi chiwerengero, chomwe chimadalira zomwe timadya ndi momwe timachitira zolimbitsa thupi. Ndipo, potsiriza, tsitsi. Tsitsi lokonzeka bwino, lomwe limapangitsa kuti likhale labwino - ndilo lokongola kwambiri.
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Malamulo osavuta
Kaya malamulo okongola a atsikana omwe amatipatsa mafilimu apamwamba, intaneti ndi televizioni, kupambana kungapezeke kokha ngati kumachitika tsiku ndi tsiku. Kusamalira khungu , misomali, thupi, tsitsi, zikhale zoyenera. Koma palibe njira zodzikongoletsera zomwe zidzakuthandizira kusunga kukongola, ngati pali matenda, kotero n'kosatheka kunyalanyaza maulendo a madokotala a mano, dokotala wa mano ndi odwala.
Malangizo abwino a atsikana ochokera kwa opanga komanso olemba masewerawa amayeneranso kusamala. Mothandizidwa ndi zovala ndi zovala zina zosankhidwa bwino, mukupanga bwino, mukhoza kuganizira zofunikira za chiwonetsero ndi maonekedwe, ndikuwonetseratu za zovuta, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala zosawoneka.
Monga mukudziwira, kuyang'ana maonekedwe kumachitika mu masekondi ochepa, ndipo anthu oyandikana nawo amayamba kuphunzira khalidwe, nkhope, khalidwe. Msungwana wolemera kwambiri, wam'bwezera, akuwombera manja, sangakhale wokongola kwambiri, ngakhale kuti chiwerengero chake chiri changwiro, ndipo zinthu zake ziri zolondola. Ukazi, chilakolako, kukoma mtima, chifundo - ichi ndi kukongola kwenikweni. Ndipo mosiyana ndi kukongola kwa thupi, kukongola kwauzimu sikungowonongeka ndi nthawi, koma maluwa!
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