Moyo wa banja sizowoneka wosavuta komanso wamatsenga, monga momwe tingafunire. Banja lililonse limakumana ndi mikangano yambiri komanso mikangano. Pambuyo pa nthawi ya chikondi, amuna ambiri amasiyana kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri sakhala abwino. Nthawi zina khalidwe laukali la mwamuna kapena mkazi lingathe kudutsa malire a zomwe zimaloledwa. Pankhaniyi, m'pofunika kumvetsa chifukwa chimene mwamuna amachitira chipongwe ndi kunyozetsa nthawi zonse, ndikusankha choti achite.
Momwe mungalangizire mwamuna chifukwa cha chipongwe?
Chiyanjano chilichonse chiyenera kumangidwa podzilemekeza. Ngati palibe, ndiye kuti mikangano ndi zoopsa zimayambira, ndipo chifukwa chake, ukwati umangogwa. Ngati kulemekeza kumabwera kuchokera kumbali ya mwamuna, amanyoza ndi kumunyozetsa mkazi wake, ndiye iye amene ayenera kudziwa zomwe angachite komanso kupulumutsa banja.
Choyamba, ndi bwino kufotokoza zifukwa zomwe zimawoneka kuti abambo amadzilola okha khalidwe ili:
- Kutentha . Ngati mwamuna nthawi zonse amapeza zolakwa, amawombera pazinthu zonse ndikuyamba kunyoza, ndiye, kawirikawiri, khalidweli likuwonetsedwa m'mabanja omwe akazi amakhala chete komanso osakondwa. Kulakwitsa kwakukulu ndiko kuganiza kuti ndi bwino kukhala chete, kuti musayambe kukangana. Komabe, munthuyo amayamba kumva kuti ndi ololedwa komanso osasamala kwambiri. Chifukwa chaichi, mungathe kuphunzitsa mwamuna wanu phunziro, ndipo musalolere kulemekeza macheza anu mwamtendere.
- Kumwa mowa mopitirira muyeso . Munthu woledzera akhoza kunena zinthu zambiri zopanda pake, zomwe si zoona nthawi zonse. Komabe, vutoli liyenera kuthandizidwa. Poyambira, mukhoza kuyesa kulemba zonse pa zojambula, zomwe zimanena ndikuzilola kumvetsera mwachidwi. Mwina mukuyenera kutembenukira kwa akatswiri kuti athandize kuchotsa kumwa mowa.
Kodi ndiyenera kupirira zonyansa za mwamuna wanga?
Mkazi aliyense amafuna kuti azikondedwa ndi kulakalaka mwamuna wake. Kuti mukhale wotere, muyenera kudzichitira nokha. Palibe amene ayenera kuloledwa kulankhula mwaulemu. Poyankha funso lakuti ngati n'zotheka kukhululukira zonyansa za mwamuna, mkazi aliyense ayenera kukhala yekha. Koma musaiwale kuti banja lachidziwitso nthawi zonse likhoza kusangalala. Sikoyenera kuti nthawi yomweyo upite kunthambi ngati chisudzulo. Choyamba muyenera kuyesetsa kuthetsa vutoli poyankhula ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu za momwe simusangalatsire khalidwe lake.