Munthu sangathe kulamulira chikondi ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zomveka kwa munthu yemwe ali pabanja. Kawirikawiri mumatha kumvetsa mwambi umene simungapange chimwemwe pa zovuta za wina ndi zina zomwe zirididi, koma bwanji ngati mulibe mphamvu kuti mumulole?
Kodi mungasunge bwanji wokondedwa wanu?
Muzochitika zoterezi, chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kulakwitsa, monga momwe anthu ambiri angathe kuvutikira. Ngati malingalirowo sakugwirizana komanso chinthu chokha chomwe chimakhudzana ndi munthu, izi ndizogonana, ndiye musakhale ndi zovuta ndikudalira zina.
Malangizo a maganizo a momwe mungasunge mwamuna wokwatira:
- Khalani woyang'anira. Ntchitoyo ndikumvetsera mwatcheru kwa wosankhidwayo, kumvetsera zinthu zosiyanasiyana zokhudza mkazi, makamaka zofooka zake. Ngati mukufuna kutenga mwamuna kuchokera ku banja, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kukhala bwino nthawi zambiri kuposa amene akuyandikira.
- Dziyang'anire nokha. Mwamuna akhoza kusankha kusiya banja, koma ngati mkazi watsopanoyo ali woyeneradi. Ndi chifukwa chake muyenera kusamalira maonekedwe anu ndi kudzala mkati. Pitani ku salons, muzivala mwamtendere ndi kukhala okongola. Ganizirani kuti fanolo liyenera kuchoka palokha lokha. Kuti mukhale okwatirana, muyenera kukhala okondweretsa, chifukwa kukonda ndi kuyandikira kwa mkazi, mwachiwonekere, kumachita zinthu mopepuka. Werengani mabuku, dzifunseni zokondweretsa zokondweretsa, zogwiritsidwa ntchito zosiyanasiyana, munthu ayenera kukhala pafupi ndi inu zosangalatsa.
- Ngati munthu akumva chisoni, ndiye kuti mungamuchititse nsanje . M'magaziniyi, chinthu chachikulu sikuti chikhale choposa. Ayenera kuzindikira kuti anthu ena amafunitsitsa kwa osankhidwa ake komanso nthawi yomwe angatayike.
- Ambiri akudalira ngati n'zotheka kusunga amuna kugonana kapena ayi. Kugonana ndi zosiyana pakati pa kugonana, izi ndi zabwino ndithu, koma
Ubale weniweni ndi wa nthawi yaitali ndi wofunikira komanso mbali zina. Pangani wokondedwa wanu kukhala wokondwa komanso wotentha. - Khalani ophweka mosavuta, musati mufunse chirichonse ndipo musamalamulire. "Nsonga" zoterezi zimamukwanira mu ubale wake ndi mkazi wake. Mwiniwakeyo ayenera kumvetsa kumene kuli kosavuta kwa iye kuti akhale komanso kumene iye amasangalala. Pokhapokha padzakhala zotheka kuwona kuti zinthu zidzathetsedwa movomerezeka.
Atsikana ambiri, poganizira momwe angasungire mwamuna wokwatiwa, pitani ku cardinal steps ndipo mwachinyengo mukhale ndi pakati. Ndikungofuna kunena kuti mwanjira imeneyi ndizosatheka kumangiriza osankhidwa nokha, ndipo nthawi zina, nkhani zosayembekezereka zingathe kungosokoneza mnzanuyo.