Atsikana ambiri amanyadira kukhala otchuka ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Koma mkhalidwe uno wa zinthu posachedwa umasokoneza ndipo ukufuna kuwona pafupi ndi umodzi, ndi yemwe mungathe kukhazikitsa ubale wamphamvu. Zikakhala choncho, vuto limabuka - momwe mungasankhire pakati pa anyamata awiri. Kawirikawiri vutoli likuwonjezeredwa ndi mfundo yakuti aliyense wa chiwalo chogonana ali ndi zofuna zapadera zomwe wopikisana alibe. Kuti musankhe bwino, mungagwiritse ntchito malangizo omwe akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji pakati pa amuna awiri?
Choyamba, muyenera kumvetsetsa nokha ndikusankha zomwe mukufuna kuti mupeze kuchokera ku moyo komanso kuchokera ku ubale . Kwa amayi ena chitonthozo cha banja ndi chofunika, ndipo ena amafuna chilakolako ndi zosangalatsa. Izi zidzatsimikizira mtundu wa munthu yemwe ayenera kukhala wotsatira.
Momwe mungasankhire pakati pa awiri mafani:
- Yesetsani kusokoneza bwenzi lanu limodzi mmoyo wanu. Ngati mukumvetsa kuti moyo sudzasintha kuchokera kwa izi mwanjira ina iliyonse, mungathe kuiyika bwinobwino.
- Malangizowo ambiri ndi kulemba mndandanda. Lembani pa pepala lapadera mapepala abwino a munthu, maganizo ake, malingaliro, ndi zina zotero. Bwerezani njirayi kwa wotsutsana naye. Chinthu chachikulu sikuthamanga ndi kulemba chirichonse pansi pazindunng'ono kwambiri. Pambuyo pokonza zochitika zoterezi, zidzatheke kuti mukhale wopambana.
- Akatswiri ambiri amalingaliro amalingaliro amalimbikitsa kwa kanthawi kuti asiye maubwenzi onse, chifukwa ndibwino kuchoka. Ndikofunika kuti tisamawone, koma kuti tisayankhulane ndi anyamata. Malingana ndi ziwerengero, zimatengera pafupifupi sabata kuti muzisankha zamtsogolo.
- Nthawi zina malangizo ochokera kunja amathandiza. Nthawi zina, abwenzi apamtima kapena achibale amatha kuona momwe aliyense wa mafanizi anu amakukhudzirani, chifukwa amayamikira zonse popanda kukhudzidwa ndi kumverera .
Musawope kusankha, chifukwa ngati mkazi akufuna kukhala ndi munthu wina, ndiye kuti tsoka lidzawaukitsa nthawi zambiri.