Pa chifukwa chilichonse, abambo amayamba mbuye wawo, ngakhale iwo okha ali okwatira ndipo ali okondedwa kwambiri omwe ali - anthu ambiri amasangalatsidwa ndi mafunso amenewa.
Kulankhula za chifukwa chake wokondedwa wachinyamata amayamba mkazi wosiyana, nthawi zambiri chifukwa chake ndi chikhumbo chokhutiritsa chikhalidwe chake chachithupi. Koma pali zifukwa zina za khalidwe ili.
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna amanyengerera?
- Palibe kusiyana . Amuna ambiri amanena kuti amayamba mbuye osati mwamsanga pomwe atangokwatirana , koma nthawi yomwe mkazi wake amasiya kukondweretsa kugonana, choncho amayang'ana njira yoyenera kumbali yomwe amatha kuzindikira zonsezi. iye akufuna.
- Kulephera kwa mankhwala ndi mahomoni . Pankhani imeneyi, maganizo amasonyeza kuti okonda okwatirana angapite kukapeza ambuye chifukwa thupi lake limakhala ndi vuto la mahomoni kapena thupi lake, chifukwa chake amakopeka kwambiri. Amuna ena sanaganizepo za kupeza mbuye, koma nthawi zina zinthu zingakakamize: matenda a mkazi kapena china chake.
- Kalembala . Aliyense amadziwa kuti mkazi amatha zaka zambiri kuposa munthu, choncho munthu monga "wolanda" amayesa kupeza "njira yatsopano" yowonjezeramo yekha ndipo sadzasiya kuganiza mwakugonana. Koma kupatula pa zonsezi, wokondedwa wokwatiwa pazifukwa zina akupitiriza kukhala ndi nsanje kwa mkazi wake. Izi ndizo chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti uyu ndi mkazi wake ndipo palibe wina ayenera kumuyang'ana.
- Mkazi ndi ngongole . Ndithudi, ambiri amadziwa kale zomwe zili pangozi pano. Inde, ngakhale kuti okondedwa okwatirana, ngakhale wokonda okwatirana, iwo sangadziwe kuti akungowagwiritsa ntchito, akuchotsa ndalama zochuluka kwa iwo. Koma, wokonda yemweyo yemwe amamukonda amakhulupirira kuti ayenera kupereka chilakolako chake ndi mphatso, kugula chirichonse chimene amamufuna, ndipo amamulipiritsa bwino. Inde, okonda okwatirana sangathe kupereka ndalama ku chilakolako chake, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti amamupatsa. Koma, kodi zilidi choncho? Inde, mwabwino koposa momwe zingakhalire, koma osati nthawi zonse. Kawirikawiri, mbuyeyo amangotenga ndalama zonse ndi kunena kuti sakufunanso, ndipo adzapita kukafunafuna. Ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chimatsala kwa wokondedwa wokwatiwa? Inde, pitani pansi pa phiko la mkazi wake.
- Maphunziro . Chifukwa china chimene mwamuna amanyengerera mkazi wake ndi chakuti analeredwa molakwika ngati mwana. Ndithudi, iye anauzidwa ali mwana kuti mwamuna akhoza kukhala ndi akazi ambiri, mochuluka momwe iye akufunira. Koma, ndithudi, makolo adayiwala kunena kuti mkazi wawo (mmodzi yekha) ayenera kulemekezedwa, osakhumudwitsidwa. Izi sizikukhudzana ndi thupi lililonse
zifukwa, koma ndi mtundu wa maphunziro achiwerewere.
Komanso ndi bwino kuganizira kuti mabanja atsopano omwe adatha pambuyo paukwati, ayenera kuti ayambe kukondana nawo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwamuna nthawi zonse amafuna kugonana, ndipo mkazi kamodzi pa sabata ndikwanira, ndiye wina anganene kuti maubwenzi amenewa sanachitike, ndipo akudikirira kusadziwika kosalephereka kapena zosangalatsa pa mbali.
Kulikonse komwe anali komanso amene anali naye wokondedwa, anali ndi nsanje ndi mkazi wake. Ndipo, ngakhale kwinakwake paulendo wa bizinesi anakumana ndi mayi wina ndipo iwo anachita zinthu zochepa, mwamunayo sakuganizira za izi, chifukwa mkazi sangadziwe konse, choncho amabwerera kunyumba ali ndi chikumbumtima choyera. Zikuwoneka ngati zilizonse ziyenera kukhala.