Kukondana ndi mwamuna wokwatiwa - choti uchite chiyani?

Maganizo omveka, malingaliro amphamvu ndi kumverera komwe kumbuyo kwa mapiko awo kunawoneka: mwamuna anawonekera mu moyo wanu. Mungathe kuyamikira, koma osati ngati mumakondana ndi mwamuna wokwatiwa, chifukwa choti muyenera kuchita ndi momwe mungakwaniritsire kuti wokondedwayo alibe ufulu adzasankha ndipo posachedwa kapena m'tsogolomu padzakhala koyenera kusankha: kukondwera ndi mkazi wachiwiri ku harem kapena kumuchotsa m'banja.

Kodi akazi okwatirana ayenera kuchita chiyani?

Ambiri mwa iwo omwe ali omangidwa ndi chiyanjano cha Hymen, musawone cholakwika chirichonse ndi wokondedwa wawo kapena wokondedwa kumbali. Pamene akunena kuti, "Wotsalirayo amalimbitsa ukwati" ndipo ngati palibe yemwe akukonzekera kusiya banja, ndiye chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikuti azikhala mwanzeru komanso osakhala ndi maganizo a theka lachiwiri. Koma ngati zinthu zapita patali, ndi bwino kuganizira mozama ngati kuli koyenera "candleworm" komanso ngati mudzadandaula kuti mwathyola njira yamoyo, ana ovulala ndi kusinthanitsa bambo awo kwa mlendo. Ngati munayamba kukondana ndi wokongola ndi wokwatira, sizowona kuti akukonzekera ubale weniweni ndi inu. Inde, ndikufuna kukhudzika ndi moto ngati Anna Karenina, koma ndikufuna kuti ndikhale ndi moyo woterewu?

Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani osakwatiwa?

Ukwati wosagwirizana pa izi siziyenera kuchitiridwa nsanje. Kukumana ndi wokwatiwa, osati munthu womasuka ndiwongolera moyo mu kuyembekezera kwamuyaya: adzabwera-sadzabwera, adzatcha-sadzaitcha. Kulira mu mtsamiro, kukumana chaka chatsopano ndi March 8 okha. Dzipangitsani nokha kukhala wosungulumwa ndi kusowa ana. Pali lingaliro lakuti amayi oterewa amathawa kuthawa amuna omwe angamange banja ndi kusankha mwaulere, omwe nthawi zonse amakhala okondweretsa, okongola ndi adrenaline m'magazi. Iwo okha sali okonzeka kugwedezeka mu moyo ndipo sayembekezera kuti mwamuna adzasiya banja lake kwa iwo. Chabwino, izi ndizo kusankha kwawo ndikutsutsa munthu amene tili pano alibe choyenera.

Chinthu china, ngati kukondana ndi mwamuna wokwatira kumabweretsa kuzunzika, ngati muzindikira kuti uchimo wa ubale wotero ndi chikhalidwe cha maganizo omwe sungathe kutha. Pano ndi kofunika kutenga njira zothetsa chikondi choletsedwa. Yesetsani kuona mwamunayo osati zabwino zokhazokha, komanso zofooka, kumukaniza pamisonkhano, kusinthana ndi china chirichonse, kulemba kuvina kapena kuyamba kuyendayenda madzulo pamodzi ndi bwenzi lanu.

Kukondana ndi mwamuna wokwatiwa wokondedwa kungachititse kuti asiyane ndi banja pamene inu nonse mukulifuna ndipo muli okonzekera zotsatira zake zonse. Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti iyi ndi theka lanu lachiwiri, ndiye mutha kuyesa ndikupita kumapeto, mosasamala kanthu za zopinga zilizonse.