Nchifukwa chiyani timagwiritsidwa ntchito ku lingaliro lakuti munthu amakhala ndi chilakolako nthawi zonse ndipo samatha panthawi yogonana sangathe? Pambuyo pake, izi zimachitika, ndipo ngati ziwonetsero, mavuto ngati amenewa siwodabwitsa. Ndiuzeni chifukwa chake vuto - ngati mwamuna satha kuthetsa kugonana kwake kwa nthawi yaitali, ayenera kukhala wosangalala, koma osalingalira zomwe ayenera kuchita ndi momwe angakonzere vutoli? Chowonadi chiri pa nkhaniyi, azimayi nthawi zambiri amangodandaula kuti abwenzi awo amachedwa mwamsanga. Koma izi zimachitika, mwatsoka, komanso mosiyana. Choncho tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake izi zikuchitika ndi choti achite ngati munthu sangathe kutsiriza nthawi yaitali.
Nchifukwa chiyani munthu sangathe kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana?
Kawirikawiri akazi, atazindikira kuti munthu sangakwanitse, ayambe kufunafuna zifukwa mwa iwo okha. Inde, ngati palibe chisangalalo, mkazi akhoza kukhala wolakwa, koma nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe ziliri mwa mwamuna. Ndipo ngati mukuvutika ndi kukayikira, kambiranani ndi mnzanuyo, mwinamwake ndi chabe thupi lake. Ndipotu, kuchuluka kwa kugonana komwe munthu amafunikira kumadalira chikhalidwe chake cha kugonana. Koma ngati chizoloŵezi chogonana kwa mwamuna wanu sichizoloŵezi, ndiye chifukwa cha zifukwa zosayambira zomwe muyenera kuganizira. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala motere.
- Kumwa mowa nthawi zambiri ndi chifukwa chomwe munthu sangathe kumaliza nthawi yaitali. Amuna ambiri amaganiza kuti ngati mukugonana mumayenera kumwa mochepa musanafike, iwo amati, izi zidzathandiza kumasula ndi kulola kuti malingaliro awoneke. Mwina ndi ochepa okha omwe amamwa pang'ono, ndipo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti munthu wambiri asamalize, chifukwa kutengeka kwa ubongo ndi ubongo kumachepa. Ngati nthano yomweyi idachitikira mnzanuyo, ndiye kuti musayanjenjemere, ndiye kuti ali ndi mlandu ndikumutenga pamutu wovuta. Yesetsani kuchotsa phindu lake podzipindulira nokha, kumbukirani kuti kufunafuna bwenzi lanu labwino kungakhale kovuta kwambiri kuposa nthawi zonse, koma chifukwa cha zosowa zanu, kugonana kumagwirizana ndi chenjezo.
- Chifukwa chachiwiri chomwe chimapangitsa kuti munthu asakhale ndi malingaliro odetsa nkhawa ndi kutopa, kupsinjika maganizo komanso mankhwala. Kugonjetsa kumachititsa dongosolo la mitsempha mwachangu komanso pazogonana zimakhudza. Choncho ngati mnzako akutsitsimutsa, musamamufunse. Ngati sali bwino pabedi, lidzakhala "kuwombera pamutu." Kudikirira bwino, ndipo mwamunayo, kuyamikira chisamaliro chanu ndi kuleza mtima, adzalitenga.
- Nthawi zambiri munthu sangathe kupeza chilakolako chifukwa ali wangwiro, ayenera kukhala paliponse komanso muzonse zabwino. Ndili pabedi, amayesa kusunga chigwirizano chofanana, kuyesera kukondweretsa mnzakeyo. Koma izi ndizovuta - mwamunayo ali ndi chizolowezi chokhutiritsa wokondedwa wake, choncho sangathe kufika pamtima. Pachifukwa ichi, mayi ayenera kumuthandiza, kunena kuti iye ndi wabwino kwambiri ndipo undiuze ine kuti mankhwala anu angaperekedwe osati ndi zipsinjo zokhazokha, mwachitsanzo, caress ya clitoris sichikulimbana nazo. Ngati mnzanuyo sakudziwa kuchita izi, mupatseni chitsanzo, mwamuna wamng'ono
sangathe kuyesedwa ndi mtundu wa mkazi wodzitama. Ndipo musamthokoze osati ndi mawu okha, koma ndichithunzi - kukwaniritsa chilakolako chake chogonana. - Zomwe mungachite ngati mwamuna samaliza kwa nthawi yaitali, koma sakuvutika maganizo, chidakwa, kapena zizindikiro zowonongeka, ndipo munayamba kuthana ndi vutoli nthawi zambiri? Apa simungathe kuchita popanda thandizo la katswiri, chifukwa zifukwa zingakhale matenda a machitidwe ogonana ndi abambo, mapulaneti, ziphuphu ndi zoperewera pa chitukuko cha machitidwe okhudza zachilengedwe. Osayimitsa ulendowu kwa dokotala, chifukwa ndi yekhayo amene angayankhe funso loti munthu sakupeza chilakolako, ndipo amapereka chithandizo. Kotero, ngati vuto liripo, pempherani wokondedwa kuti akachezere dokotala.