Kugonana - chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa chikondi cha conjugal, mgwirizano wapamwamba wa miyoyo ndi matupi a anthu achikondi. Choncho, kusowa chisangalalo, mgwirizano pakati pa chibwenzi ndi vuto lenileni limene limafuna chisankho choyenera cha nkhaniyi, momwe mungasangalalire panthawi yogonana.
Chifukwa chiyani sindingathe kumasuka panthawi yogonana?
Nthawi zina msungwana (kapena mkazi) sangathe kumasuka panthawi yogonana chifukwa amadziganizira nthawi zonse: koma ngati ndikugona bwino, ndikuyenda bwino, ndipo pamutu mmawa mdima unadumphira, ndipo mamba ili ndi magalamu 500 - chabwino, ngati mukuwopa kuti mukuwoneka moipa kapena osagonana!
Muzochitika izi, muyenera kudziphunzitsa kuti musaganizire za inu nokha ndi zolakwa zanu, koma za okondedwa anu ndi chikhumbo chanu chokondana ndi iye, ndiye mudzaiwala za zomwe mwamuna wanu sakudziwa. Ngati izi zikuyenda bwino, sindikukhulupirira kuti mayi yemwe ali ndi kachilombo amatha kuchita zosangalatsa za kugonana, mumayenera kulemba ulemu wanu wonse (tsitsi lokongola, maso okometsa, mawonekedwe apamtima, chidziwitso cha zinthu zonse zokhudzana ndi kugonana).
Zikuchitika kuti kukhumudwa komwe kunabweretsa kuchokera kuntchito kapena kuchoka. Ndipo malingaliro onse amabwereranso ku chilango chosalungama.
Pankhaniyi, muyenera kukonzekera pasadakhale (tengani kusamba kununkhira, kumvetsera nyimbo zabwino, penyani filimu yachikondi) - zonse ndizotheka ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa. Ndipo palibe funso la momwe mungaphunzire kupumula pa kugonana - mutha kusintha kale njira yoyenera pasadakhale.
Kugonana - sizisonyezeratu chikondi, koma ndi uzimu. Mwinamwake chifukwa chake ndikuti mumtima mwathu mukwiyira wokondedwa wanu. Ndibwino kuti musagwire mwala pachifuwa chanu. Kapena mupeze mgwirizano, kufuula, kulira, kapena kungokhululukira, popanda kukangana, koma kuchokera mumtima. Zonse zomwe, ndi zina zimathandiza, zimadalira pa munthuyo yekha.
Nthawi zina amapempha momwe angathere panthawi yogonana . Koma akadali mtundu wosagwirizana. Mwinamwake iye alibe chilakolako, ndipo thupi likutanthauza izo? Pambuyo pake, mukhoza kubwera ndi njira zina zomwe sizimapweteka. Kawirikawiri, njira imodzi yochotseramo kufinya nthawi yachibwenzi ndi kumvetsera thupi lanu. Ndiyeno chirichonse chidzakhala bwino.