Chiitanidwe ku ukwatiwo kawirikawiri chimapangitsa asungwanawo kuti asangalale ndi zomwe zingatheke kuvala, kuvina, ndikudziwana ndi mlendo wina wokondweretsa, komanso chisangalalo chokhudzana ndi chakuti mukufuna kuwona zachilendo ndi zopanda pake. Zimakhala zovuta kupeza chovala, ngati chikukhudza ukwati wa achibale, mwachitsanzo, m'bale.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji chovala chaukwati wanga?
Kaya chiyanjano chanu ndi chiani, muyambe kugula kavalidwe moyenera, chifukwa ndinu a m'banja lanu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti achibale anu am'tsogolo adzaweruza mkwati mwa maonekedwe anu. Pali malamulo angapo, omwe zovala ziyenera kupeĊµedwa:
- Musamabvala kavalidwe kafupika kapena kosalala, asiyeni ma phwando apamtima kapena maphwando a nkhuku. Paukwati, kumene kuli achibale okalamba, izo ziwoneka zovuta.
- Ngati simukudziwa bwino mkwatibwi ndipo simungapeze kuti zovala zake zidzakhala zotani, ndiye kuti si bwino kuvala zovala zoyera. Mudzapeza kuti muli pamalo osasangalatsa ngati mwadzidzidzi amasankha mtundu wina, ndipo mungasankhe, pamene inu muli oyera, sizinapindule kwambiri.
- Musakhale oyambirira ndikusankha kalembedwe kake. Ngakhalenso ukwatiwo ukachitika mumayendedwe alionse, mudzakhala woyenera kuyang'ana.
Kodi ndiyang'ane chiyani?
Momwe mungavalidwe kuti ukwati wanu ukhale wolemekezeka, udzanenanso za thupi lanu. Masiku ano, mwa njira, yaitali, madiresi osakanikirana omwe amayenera pafupifupi pafupifupi aliyense ali ndi mafashoni. Musaiwale kuti muyenera kuvala zovala zoyambirira kuti muvale ukwati wa mbale wanu, womwe udzatsindikitseni chidwi chanu. Ndipo, ndithudi, kupita ku chikondwerero chotero, nkofunikira kulingalira pasadakhale maluwa a mkwatibwi.
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