Moyo wa mkazi woipa ndi ululu wambiri. Mkazi wokongola aliyense amamukumbutsa kuti chilengedwe sichiri nthawi zonse chopereka. Galasi iliyonse imaseka. Amuna sakuzindikira. Chiwonongeko sichiwonjezera ... Imani! Kodi ndi choncho?
Kukongola kwa kunja - chimodzi mwa zinthu zochepa kwambiri zotsutsana, komabe akazi ochepa amene amawoneka kuti alibe chidwi, adzatsimikizira izi. Tiyeni tiganizire za zomwe zimapangitsa amayi oipitsitsa kukhala okongola pamaso pa ena. Ndizoipa bwanji (mwa lingaliro lake) msungwanayo kukonzekera moyo ndikupeza mnyamata yemwe adzamutcha wokongola.
Kodi mungachite chiyani kwa atsikana osakondwa?
Kumbukirani akazi omwe miyezo yawo ilibe yabwino, koma imachepetsabe komanso imayendetsa anthu ambiri amisala. Cleopatra, yemwe chithunzi chake pa ndalama zamakedzana, chikufanana ndi mbiri ya chiwombankhanga. Anna Boleyn, yemwe anali ndi vuto la polydacty. Male-monga Gala - nyumba ya Dali? Lisa Minnelli, yemwe ankasewera, dzina lake Barbara Streisand, Sarah Jessica Parker. Onse a iwo ndi chikumbumtima choyera akhoza kudandaula miyoyo yawo yonse pagalasi. Musayambe nkhope yanu chifukwa cholephera. Tiyeni tiyang'ane pa njira yatsopano.
Iwe uli mu mwayi. Mukukhala panthawi yomwe miyezo ya kukongola imachotsedwa mu mbiriyakale. Anthu amaphunzira kuwona zakuya, ndipo opanga mafashoni ambiri amabweretsa zojambula zapamwamba zomwe sizingakhalepo pa zaka 10 zapitazo. Nchifukwa chiyani maso awa, owoneka ngati atsikana, okondedwa. Kodi amanyadira chiyani? Yankho lake ndi lophweka - kukongola kwake kokha.
- Khalani patsogolo pa galasi. Ganizirani chifukwa chake mumadziona kuti ndinu oipa. Nchifukwa chiyani iwe sungakhoze kukhala mmodzi wa akazi awo omwe umakhala oipitsitsa amachititsa chidwi kuposa kukongola? Kumbukirani: atsikana osayera salipo. Pali atsikana osasangalala. Atsikana okongola ndi osalungama ali msonkhano.
- Penyani thanzi lanu. Icho chiri ndi kukongola. Kondani thupi lanu kuti likubwezeretseni. Mkazi wathanzi amakoka amuna ngakhale mwachibadwa;
- Ngati mukulimbana ndi zofooka zokhazokha zothandizira, zithandizani kuyendetsa moyo wanu. Kukongola kwathunthu kumakhala kosasangalatsa, kumakhala pamtunda ndipo sikusokoneza munthu kwa nthawi yaitali (osachepera, atatha kutenga). Kukongola kumene nthawi zina kumawalira kapena kupyoza mkati kumakhala kokongola kwambiri. Ndipo zotsatira zake ndizitali kwambiri.
- Gwiritsani ntchito mawu anu. Liwu ndi chida champhamvu kwambiri chachinyengo. Mukhoza kulembetsa maphunziro apadera kapena kungophunzitsani zokhazokha podzilemba nokha pazithunzi. Tsatirani kulamula. Kuseka, ndi kotheka.
- Admire the gait. Pambuyo powerenga buku lina losangalatsa (kupanga zopereka ku kukongola kwa moyo), musafulumize kuziika pa alumali. Ikani bukhuli pamutu panu ndikuyendayenda mozungulira nyumba, ndikukondwera ndi chifumu.
- Sewani ndi fungo. Mizimu yabwino, fungo la thanzi labwino, thupi loyera ndi tizilombo toyambitsa matenda. Kumbukirani Cleopatra, amene ankawona kuti fungo ndi chimodzi mwa zinsinsi zake zazikulu ndipo adatulutsa maluwa a maluwa ndi sitimayo yomwe inachititsa kuti Mark Antony akhale wopenga.
- Pangani kukoma. Chovala chokongola, chosankhika chosankhidwa - nkhope imodzi yokongola siidzapulumutsa, ngati mwiniwake sakudziwa kudzipezera yekha zovala.
- Pezani zolaula. Inde, kudziyang'ana nokha pagalasi ndi kulira ndi ntchito, koma pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zingapangitse moyo wanu kukhala wosangalatsa, ndipo
amatanthawuza, adzakupatsani kuwala kwa maso anu. Kumbukirani zomwe Audrey Hepburn wodabwitsa adanena za ubwino wa maso - ndiko kukongola kwenikweni mwa iwo. - Chitani zabwino. Ubwino ndi kukongola. Zabwino zimapereka ndemanga pa nkhope ndi nthawi, chifukwa munachitika kuona akazi achikulire okongola, omwe nkhope zawo zinali zokongoletsedwa mwachifundo? Simungakhale otsimikiza kuti ali aang'ono ali okongola. Palibe amayi oipa. Ngati wina akuganiza kuti ndinu woipa, zikutanthauza kuti wina wa inu ali ndi moyo woipa.
- Dziwani nokha. Tsiku lililonse, fufuzani chifukwa chimene mungadzikondere nokha. Sangalalani ndi opambana anu.