Ubale wapamtima wakhala kwa ambiri a ife kuchokera mu gulu la chinthu cholakwika kapena chamanyazi. Ambiri kumene mungakumane ndi kukambirana, mafunso ndi mayankho, ndi kusinthanitsa zochitika. Kusinthasintha koteroko kumaloleza osati kukambirana zokhazokha kapena zosiyana siyana za moyo wapamtima, komanso kumayankha kuyankha mafunso ambiri, makamaka kwa iwo amene ali ndi moyo wongoyamba kumene.
Kuuza zoyenera kuchita ndi kugonana koyambirira, mukhoza kupita kumtunda wa zojambula zogonana, zomwe ambiri mwa iwo ngakhale omwe ali ndi chidziwitso sanaphunzire. Koma pakadali pano, chinthu chofunikira sikuti chikhale choyipa kwambiri ndi kudzichepetsa kwambiri.
Kodi mungapange bwanji chikondi nthawi yoyamba?
Choyamba, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti kugonana koyamba kuyenera kuchitika pamalo otetezeka, oyenera kumasuka ndi kumasulidwa. Sankhani malo omwe inu ndi mnzanuyo mudzakhala omasuka. Khudzani chirichonse chomwe chingakulepheretseni inu wina ndi mzake, kukhazikitsa chiyanjano choyanjana ndi nyimbo ndi kuunikira. Kuwotcha pang'ono ndi vinyo pang'ono kudzakuthandizani kumverera mopepuka pang'ono ndikukankhira wina ndi mnzake.
Zochita zonse ziyenera kukhazikitsidwa makamaka kuti wopanga azikhala omasuka komanso omasuka. Mnyamata sayenera kuthamangira zinthu, msiyeni mtsikanayo alowe mu chidaliro chake. Chitani zomwe munkachita kale - kumpsompsonana ndi kumangokhalirana, mulole thupi lidziwe zosangalatsa zosavuta ndi zosavuta. Kusunthika konse kuyenera kukhala kosalala, chifukwa nthawi yoyamba ikhoza kumasula, komanso kwinakwake komanso zowawa. Mvetserani kwa mnzanuyo, musathamangitse kuzindikira mwamsanga kwa zilakolako zanu.
N'zosatheka kupereka tanthauzo lenileni la momwe mungapangire chikondi molondola. Nthawi yoyamba idzakhala yapadera, yosakumbukika kwambiri. Ziribe kanthu kuti mumaphunzira zochuluka bwanji zomwe zimachitikira ena ndi malangizo, mutha kukhala ndi zonse mwanjira yanu, payekha. Kuti kugonana koyambirira koyamba, kugonana ndi mnzanu wina - nthawi yoyamba kulibe chitsanzo chokhazikika.