Sizowonongeka kukumana ndi anthu omwe amadzidalira okha ndi mphamvu zawo. Ambiri a iwo ali ndi mantha, zina zovuta ndi zoletsedwa zomwe zimawalepheretsa kudziulula okha, kuzindikira zomwe angathe. Ambiri angakonde kudziwa momwe angakhulupirire mwa iwo wokha ndikupeza chidaliro , chifukwa chikanawatsegulira mwayi watsopano.
Kodi mungakhulupirire bwanji mphamvu zanu?
- Choyamba, musamadzifanizire ndi kufanana ndi anthu ena ndipo mumvetse kuti munthu aliyense ndi wapadera ndipo aliyense ali ndi ubwino ndi zovuta. Mukuyenera kudzitamandira nokha pafupipafupi, kupambana kulikonse ndikuyesetsanso nthawi yowonjezera.
- Komabe, ambiri ndi ovuta kuyamba. Amawopa kuti sangathe kupirira, akuwopa kuti zidzasokonekera. Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe angadzikhulupirire okha, musati mulandire nkhaniyi. Inde, dziko silidzagwa, ngati palibe chimene chidzachitike, umunthu sudzawonongeka, ndi zina zotero. Podziwa kuti ntchito yomwe ikubwera siidetsa nkhawa, ndi kosavuta kukhazikitsa pansi, kumasuka ndikuyamba, pamapeto pake.
- Kuchita chinachake, makamaka chomwe chiyenera kuchitika koyamba, zingakhale bwino kukonzekera. Ndi bwino kuphunzira mbali zonse za malonda, cholinga chake ndi zotsatira zake. Mwachitsanzo, pokonzekera kulankhula pamaso pa omvera, ndi bwino kuphunzira lipoti, kukonzekera mafunso otheka, kenako wokamba nkhaniyo adzamva kuti ali ndi chidaliro cholimba.
- Sindidziwa momwe mungadzikhulupirire nokha ndikuyamba kukhala ndi moyo, ndi bwino kusankha nokha nkhani yokhumba. Inde, popanda kukhala ndi chiwerengero cha milandu, n'zovuta kukhala wokhala bwino. Pomwe ndikudziyesa ndekha ndikunyamula katundu ku mphamvu, mungathe kuyembekezera kupambana ndi kuzindikira, kuti mukhale chomwe chidayembekezeredwa. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - kuchitapo kanthu, chifukwa kusaganizira kumachititsa kudandaula ndi kusakhulupirira mwa iwe mwini, ndipo akuyenera kuthetsedwa.