Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuti muyankhule bwino?

Kulankhula bwino ndi gawo la fano lanu. Zimakhulupirira kuti kulankhula ndi 25 peresenti ya umunthu wonse. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mauthenga a interlocutor poyamba amatha kukongola ndi kuyankhula, koma mawu komanso mawu omveka ndi ofunikira.

Ngakhale pamene kuyankhulana kwanu kuli kochepa kwa banja lanu ndi oyandikana nawo, kudziwa momwe mungalankhulire bwino ndi anthu kudzapulumutsidwa pazochitika zosiyanasiyana za moyo. Anthu adzakumvetsani ndikuwerengera malingaliro anu, potsiriza, mudzangokhala wokambirana kwambiri, yemwe ndi wokondwa kulankhula naye. Ngati mutagwira ntchito mu gulu, kukambirana bwino kumathandiza ntchito yanu, kuonjezera kufunika kwanu kwa ena, muyenera kulemekezedwa ndi anzanu. Izi zidzakhala zothandiza kwambiri pa zokambirana zosiyanasiyana pamisonkhano ndi misonkhano. Mutu kapena munthu amene akufunsira udindo umenewu akuyenera kudziwa momwe angalankhulire bwino komanso ali bwino chifukwa ndi nkhope ya kampaniyo, ndipo mawu amamuthandiza kutsogolera anthu kwa iye, kupeza ogwirizana nawo ntchito, kumaliza ntchito. Mosiyana ndi lexicon osauka ndi kulephera kutsimikizira interlocutor angayambitse mavuto pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri.

Kuphunzira kulankhula molondola

1. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungayankhulire bwino, yesetsani kuwerenga, osachepera fifitini patsiku komanso zabwino kwambiri. Ndizo chitsanzo chakulankhula. Kuŵerenga kukulitsa mawu, kufotokoza mawu, kumathandiza munthu kupanga ziganizo molondola ndi kufotokoza momveka bwino malingaliro. Mwadzidzidzi mudzakumbukira mawu ndi mawu omwe mungagwiritse ntchito pokambirana.
2. Pamsangamsanga, phunzirani zofanana. Zidzakuthandizani kulingalira molondola maganizo anu ndipo mudzapewa muzokambirana mawu-zizindikiro, mitsempha ndi mapiritsi, zomwe zimapangitsa kulankhula kwachangu mopanda nzeru, kosamvetsetseka ndikukhumudwitsa interlocutor.
3. Musagwiritse ntchito mawu omwe simukudziwa tanthauzo lake. Zofotokozera zafotokozera ndi zofotokozera za Chirasha zidzakuthandizira kuwonjezera mawu anu. Kumbukirani zovuta zowona m'mawu.
4. Wonjezerani nthawi yolankhula. Ngati palibe wina woti ayankhule naye, yambani kuwonetsa TV ndikuyesa kusintha pa nkhani ya wolengeza. Kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zoyenera, muyenera kulankhula mokweza. Chifukwa cha masewerowa, mutha kukulitsa katundu wamtunduwu, ndipo mumapanga mawu osalongosoka ndi mapulaneti osayenera.
5. Pezani m'mawu anu mawu osasangalatsa omwe sawonjezera tanthawuzo ndipo osagwirizanitsa chidziwitso chirichonse pa zomwe zinanenedwa.
6. Pamsangamsanga, bweretsani munthu amene mumakonda mafilimu ndi mabuku. Samalani, chifukwa cha omvera anu kuyankhula kwanu ndi kuyesa kukweza chidwi chawo.
7. Pewani kupuma kwautali ndikuwona mgwirizano wa kulankhula.
8. Kukhoza kolondola komanso kufotokozera uthenga wabwino kungaphunzire mwa kuchita masewero otsatirawa - "kulankhula zachabechabe." Yesani kwa mphindi zisanu, lembani chinenero chokongola pa chinthu, mwachitsanzo, ponena za kapu, kenako sankhani nkhani ina yokambirana. Pang'onopang'ono kuwonjezera nthawi ya masewera olimbitsa thupi. Pakapita nthawi, mukhoza kulankhula mosavuta pa mutu uliwonse.
9. Musagwiritse ntchito slang ndi mawu onyansa. Osagwiritsa ntchito mawu a sayansi omwe ena sadziwa. Ndiponso peŵani mawu a pulogalamu.
10. Mawu okhawo sangapangitse kuyankhula kwanu kumvetsetsa, mukufunikira maluso ambiri kuti mumange bwino ziganizo, momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino. Kuonjezera luso limeneli, yesani kutenga tanthauzo la mawu, mwachitsanzo "zokongola ndi ..." Kapena pa pepala lembani mawu ndi kutulutsa mawuwo. Pamene mumatuluka, ndi bwino.
11. Maphunziro a tsiku ndi tsiku amasintha njira ya kulankhula. Imani pagalasi ndikudziwe nokha za tsiku lanu lero, kulamulira manja ndi nkhope.

Munthu yemwe amadziwa komanso kudziwa momwe angalankhulire bwino ndi anthu omwe amawazungulira amaonedwa kuti ndi wophunzira komanso wophunzira. Phunzirani kulankhula molondola, mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse bwino moyo wanu?