Kuwonekerana ndi ndondomeko ya manja, osalankhula, ndi zinthu zina, koma choyamba, kukopa ndizojambula. Atsikana ena ali ndi luso lachiwerewere la kukonda anzawo, ena amafunikira luso limeneli, monga kuimba kapena kujambula. Koma kwenikweni, aliyense woyimira zachiwerewere poyamba amatha kukondana, chinthu chofunika ndikuti athe kufotokoza momveka bwino izi. Kodi munthu angayesere bwanji mwamuna ndi mwamuna molondola, kuti asamawonekere mopitirira malire, kapena ali wolimba kwambiri?
Kodi kuthamanga ndi mwamuna kumatanthauzanji?
Choyamba, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakuyamba ndikutenga zowonongeka, chifukwa kuchokera pa izi zonse zimadalira njira zomwe zidzafunikire kutsogoleredwa mu "masewera" omwe akubwera. Kuchita masewera madzulo madzulo amatha kukhala ndi chida chochepa kwambiri, ndipo ngati simukufuna kumudziwa bwino, mumayesetsanso kucheza naye nthawi yayitali, ndiye "kusewera" ayenera kukhala mosamala komanso mokondwera kuti amukondweretse, ndikufunitseni kukumana kachiwiri.
Phunzirani kukondana ndi abambo kungakhalepo, choncho ndibwino kuti muyambe kuchita zinthu zina ndikuyamba kuchita.
- Yang'anani . Kawirikawiri, kuyang'ana ndi chida chachikulu cha mkazi. Ndikofunikira kuti muyang'ane ndi maso ndikumusamala mnzanuyo, monga momwe adakhalira kale.
- Sungani . Zokondweretsa, zokwera, zosangalatsa, zokongola, zokondweretsa ... Monga maonekedwe, kumwetulira kunganene zambiri za mwini wake ndi zolinga zake. Ndipo pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kusekerera kumakhala kosafunika kwenikweni kuposa kuyang'ana.
- Gwirani . Monga ngati kuwala kwamba kumakhudza kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi kuli wamphamvu kwambiri kuposa kayendedwe kena kosavuta. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira atsikana onse. Gwirani zala za dzanja lake, mwangozi kugwira bondo la mwendo wake - ndi woyera, ndi mofatsa, ndi zosangalatsa: malo abwino kwambiri.
- Kukambirana . Ndipo, ndithudi, simuyenera kulola kuti mwadzidzidzi muyimitse pokambirana kapena mwakachetechete. Ndi bwino kusintha mutu wa zokambirana nthawi zonse, kuti muuze chinachake, mukhoza kugwa mwangozi
Zina mwazochitika pa zokambiranazo, sizidzakhala zodabwitsa.
Kodi mungakonde bwanji mwamuna ndi makalata molondola?
Zojambula zochepa ndi kujambula kudzera m'makalata. Pachifukwa ichi, nkofunikira kudziwa mawu mwaluso, popeza palibe kuthekera kwa zochitika zina. Mu mauthenga a intaneti mungatumize zithunzi zosiyanasiyana ndi zizindikiro kapena zithunzi zanu, koma simungathe kunena momveka bwino, amuna nthawi zonse amafunika kuchoka pa malo osinkhasinkha, ndiye adzakhala okondweretsa.
Kulankhula za momwe mungakopera ndi mwamuna ndi SMS, ndi bwino kukumbukira chinthu chachikulu: Amuna samvetsetsa bwino nthawi zonse. Choncho, ngakhale kusamvetsetsana kumafunika kukhala kosavuta kwambiri kuti amvetsetse bwino.