Ngati mwamunayo akuwopa kuti adzataya mkazi wake, sangathe kuyang'ana akazi ena ndikukhala mwamakhalidwe m'banja. Momwe mungapangire mwamuna mantha kuti amusiye mkazi wake, mungaphunzire kuchokera kuzinthu zomwe akatswiri a zamaganizo a m'banja amakhulupirira.
Momwe mungapangire mwamuna kulemekeza ndi kuyamikira mkazi wake?
Nkhani ya kusunga chikondi ndi ulemu pakati pa abambo sizimayi okhaokha. Ngakhale amayi okongola kwambiri, opambana ndi aluso amatha kusiya amuna awo. Izi zikusonyeza kuti palibe chitsimikiziro chosunga chikondi kwa zaka zambiri. Komabe, mkazi akhoza kutenga njira zomwe zingamupangitse mwamuna wake kuti amutaya.
Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zimamvekera, amuna nthawizonse amawopa kutaya akazi apadera, omwe nthawi zonse amakhalabe okha. Psycholoji ya mkazi imakonzedwera mwanjira yomwe imakhala nthawi zonse imasinthira kwa mwamuna, ngati liana, yomwe imazungulira mtengo wolimba. Ndipo pakapita nthawi, mwamuna wake amayamba kumukhumudwitsa, amasiya kuzindikira mkazi wake ngati munthu , ndipo, motero, kulemekeza ndi kuyamikira.
Mayi ayenera kudziyamikira yekha, koma musanyoze mphuno yake ndi kumupatsa mwamuna ngongole. Mwamuna ayenera kukhala mphamvu yosatsutsika, mawu onse otsutsa kapena kusagwirizana angayambe payekha. Kulemekezana ndilo nsanamira yachiwiri pambuyo pa chikondi, chomwe banja limasungidwa, ndipo ndi mkazi yemwe ayenera kumanga, yemwe adayankha kupeza yankho la funso la momwe angaphunzitsire mwamuna wake kuyamikira mkazi wake.
Kuti mudziwe zoyenera zomwe munthu amayenera, amishonale a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti ayang'ane moyang'anizana ndi banja la mwamuna. Si chinsinsi chakuti pafupifupi nthawizonse amuna amasankha mkazi, akuyang'ana amayi awo. Choncho, amayamikira kwambiri amayi omwe ali ndi makhalidwe ofanana ndi amayi awo. Ndipo zofunikira za izi zikhoza kukhala zosiyana kwambiri - kuchokera pa talente ya uvuni kupita ku pies okongola komanso mwachangu cutlets kuti amvetse zithunzi ndi mizere.
Kuonjezera apo, kulemekeza kwa amuna ndi akazi omwe ali ovomerezeka bwino m'madera ammunthu. Mwamuna adzakondwera kuuza achibale kuti mkazi wake akuyendetsa galimoto mwangwiro ndipo pamodzi ndi iye "akudwala" chifukwa cha timu yake ya mpira. Komabe, ndikulingalira ndi zochitika za amuna sikofunika - ngati mkazi mwiniwake akonzanso chingwe ndikusinthira papepala, mwamuna wake angamve ngati wopanda pake.
Ndipo akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka malangizo amodzi padziko lonse kuti apulumutse chidwi cha amuna: amalimbikitsa kuti mkazi akhale mwamunthu pamlingo winawake, wosazizwitsa. Omwe amawagonjetsa amphamvu nthawi zonse amakhala osaka, choncho pamene "wogwidwa" akugwidwa, amayamba kunjenjemera ndi kuyang'ana pozungulira ndi chidwi. Ndipo ngati mkaziyo sakhala wovuta, mwamunayo adzachita mantha kuti amusiye ndipo sadzalola kuti maso ake awonongeke kwa mkazi wake. Ndi akazi ena ati omwe alipo ...
Momwe mungapangire munthu kupanga mphatso?
Amayi onse amafuna kumverera okondedwa, ndipo amuna amadziwa bwino izi. Komabe, nthawi zambiri sazindikira kuti mkazi amatha kumverera atasiyidwa ndi wosungulumwa popanda mphatso. Ndipo palibe vuto lililonse lopanda kulandira mphatso yodzikonda. Ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chachibadwa, chomwe chimachokera ku nthawi yomwe mwamuna amasunga chikondi ndi chidwi cha mkazi adakakamizidwa kuti azibweretsa zinyama kumalo awo. Ndipo ndi zofunika kwambiri,
Nazi malingaliro a katswiri wa zamaganizo yemwe angakuuzeni momwe mungapezere munthu kuti apange mphatso:
- mphatso sizingapembedzedwe, koma nthawizina zimayenera kuponya mosamala kuti munthu amadziwa zomwe zingakondwere wokondedwa wanu;
- Muyenera kusangalala ndi aliyense, ngakhale mphatso yosafunika kwambiri, munthu adzakondwera ndipo ndithudi sadzafuna kuwona izi;
- mphatso siziyenera kokha kuyembekezera, komanso kupereka - wokondedwa adzakondwera kulandira chinthu chosankhidwa kuchokera mumtima.