Mphamvu ya malingaliro a wina aliyense imawonekera makamaka kwa ana, pamene chinachake chikuonekera. Kenaka amayamba kuzindikira ana ena ndikuseka wina yemwe wasintha ndi iwo.
Psylology ya kudalira pa malingaliro a munthu wina ndi ovuta kwambiri. Malinga ndi asayansi, izi zachoka nthawi yaitali, pamene anthu ankakhala m'gulu la ziweto, ndipo kuti apulumuke, kunali koyenera kuti aziphatika pamodzi.
Koma tsopano, panthawi yomwe chilengedwe chimapangidwira china chilichonse, kudzimvera chisoni ndi chikhumbo chokondweretsa mnansi kumangolepheretsa.
Kulankhula za momwe mungasiyire mogwirizana ndi malingaliro a wina, ndi bwino kumvetsera njira zoganiza za kunyalanyaza malingaliro a ena.
Aliyense ayenera kuyima malingana ndi maganizo a ena, monga chizolowezi choipa. Choyamba, ndibwino kumvetsetsa kuti aliyense ali ofanana, chifukwa chake maganizo a anthu ena sali ofunika kwambiri kuposa anu.
Kenaka, m'pofunika kudziwa cholinga chomwe mumakhalira. Ndipo yang'anani pa zochita zanu zonse kudzera mu ndende ya cholinga ichi. Ngati wina akukunyozani ndikuganiza kuti mukulakwitsa, ndiye kuti, munthu uyu ndi cholepheretsa kukwaniritsa cholinga ichi, ndipo simukuyenera kumvetsera.
Kodi kuchotsa kudalira pa malingaliro a wina?
Ngati mumadalira kale malingaliro a mphamvu iliyonse yomwe mumakhulupirira kwathunthu, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira yosiyana.
Kumbukirani ngati munthuyu adapanga zolakwika m'moyo wake. Ngati yankho ndilo, ndiye kuti maganizo anu sali oyenera kuti musamakhulupirire.
Yesani kukulitsa anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo - fufuzani anthu oganiza bwino. Kudziwa kuti simuli nokha wakhala akudalira chilichonse.
Funso la momwe tingalekerere kulingalira kwa malingaliro a munthu wina ndilofunikira kwambiri masiku ano, chifukwa kuti tikwaniritse bwino, kulimbika kumodzi kokha - ndikofunikira kuti tisiyane ndi anthu kuti tidziŵe.