Ena sawona chilichonse "chophwanya" mu khalidwe la chinthu china chapadera, koma kwa anthu oyandikana nawo nthawi zonse amakwiya, kukhumudwa ndi kufotokozera maubwenzi, kukambirana pazithunzithunzi zapamwamba kumabweretsa mavuto ambiri ndi kusokoneza maganizo . Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti khalidwe la khalidwe lanu likuvulaza osati ena okha, koma koposa zonse, mwa inu nokha, ganizirani momwe mungakhalire odekha komanso oyenera.
Kuphunzira kukhala wodekha
Palibe mavuto omwe sungathetseke, ngati mwasankha kubweretsa mtendere ndi mgwirizano mu moyo wanu ndipo musagwirizane ndi mawu onse ndi kuphulika kwa maganizo, funsani zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa momwe mungakhalire odekha, komanso kupeza zotsatira zenizeni:
- Choyamba muyenera kudziwa kuti ndi ndani kapena ndani amene amachititsa mkwiyo wanu ndi kupsa mtima, kenako fufuzani ngati zachiwawa zomwe mukuwonetsa ndizofunikira.
- Ngati n'kotheka, yesetsani kukumana mobwerezabwereza ngati n'kotheka ndi anthu omwe amakulepheretsani. Ngati izi sizingatheke, koma mukudandaula za momwe mungakhalire wamtendere komanso olekerera, kambiranani nawo pazokambirana zina ndi zina, musayambe kukangana, musayesetse kutsimikizira kuti muli ndi ufulu.
- Lekani kusokoneza mitsempha yanu pamene mukuyembekeza zoyendetsa galimoto, ndipo zapita nthawi yaitali, pomwe mzerewu ukupita patsogolo pang'onopang'ono, ndipo muzochitika zina za tsiku ndi tsiku, zomwe simungasinthe. Popeza simungathe kufulumizitsa ntchito ya cashier, koma mukufuna kumvetsa momwe mungakhalire wamtendere komanso osagwedezeka, osokonezeka ndi chinachake, kuyang'ana pozungulira ndi kumvetsa kuti chifukwa mukuda nkhawa ndi kuyang'ana nthawi, basi silidzafulumira - avomereze momwemo.
- Kuti mukhale chete, mutenge zida za nzeru zaku China zakuda: "Ngati vuto liri losasunthika, ndiye kuti sikoyenera, ngati sikutheka kuthetsa izo, ndiye kuti sizingafunikire kudandaula."
- Koma mungatani kuti mukhale okoma mtima komanso odekha ngati pali zowopsya zambirimbiri? Phunzirani kufotokozera mfundozo mofunikira, ndipo posachedwapa zidzatsimikizirika kuti magawo atatu a nkhaŵa yanu ndizopanda kanthu, palibe kanthu kofunika kopanda pake kapena kopanda kusintha pamoyo wanu. Ndipo ngati zili choncho, musadandaule ndikukhala mwamantha.