Aliyense wa ife ali ndi zokondweretsa kapena zofunikanso, chifukwa pakubereka munthu amakhala ndi zinthu zinazake, zinthu zinazake, ndi zina zotero. Ngakhale zikuwoneka kuti palibe chomwe chingakutengeni, mukulakwitsa. Mwachidziwikire, kuti sanakumanepo ndi phunziro lochititsa chidwi, choncho tiyeni tiyesetse kupeza chifukwa chake chizoloŵezi chimafunika.
Nchifukwa chiyani chizoloŵezi cha munthu?
Malinga ndi wolemba wotchuka, ndipo kenaka katswiri wafilosofi Frederic Begbeder, aliyense amafunika kukhala ndi chizolowezi chochita zinthu zosangalatsa. Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa, ambiri okhala m'mayiko a CIS alibe zonse, ngakhale kuti akatswiri a maganizo amanena kuti kukhala ndi ntchito yovomerezeka m'moyo wa aliyense kumathandiza kwambiri. Ndipotu, amachititsa kuti moyo wathu ukhale wogwirizana kwambiri, kumathandiza kuti zinthu zikhale bwino.
Komanso, zosangalatsa zimathandiza kupewa matenda a neuropsychic. Iwo sayenera kukhala oyanjana ndi ntchito, koma kutchula zomwe mumakonda kuchita patsikuli amatha kukuwonetsani ngati munthu woyambirira ndi wopanga.
Mu psychology, amakhulupirira kuti kukwaniritsa munthu ndikofunika kukhazikitsa zisanu zofunika zigawo zikuluzikulu: thanzi, malonda wokondedwa, chitukuko, maubwenzi ndi ndalama. Musamangidwe pa chinthu chimodzi. Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yonse yaulere kupeza njira zowonjezerapo ndalama, ndiye kuti mumayesa kuwononga maubwenzi anu ndi okondedwa anu. Khalani ndi moyo chifukwa cha ana? - m'tsogolomu mudzakhumudwa, pamene anapiye amachokera ku chisa chawo.
Zikanakhala kuti zonse zomwe tatchulidwa pamwambazi zikugwirizanitsidwa chimodzimodzi, zikondwerero, ndinu munthu wokondwa.
Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti kulephera kuntchito kapena m'moyo waumwini nthawi zambiri kumalipidwa ndi zosangalatsa. Otsatirawa amapangitsa moyo kukhala wolemera komanso wokondweretsa, wopatsa chitukuko chowonjezereka ndikufufuza zatsopano zopezera chimwemwe.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji zosangalatsa?
Nthawi zambiri mungathe kuona chithunzichi: munthu amakakamizika kuti azipeza ndalama zodyetsa banja lake, ndipo alibe nthawi yokwanira. Koma aliyense wa ife ali ndi luso lachibadwa ndi luso lomwe amayembekeza kuzindikira kwake. Pokhapokha mu zochitika za moyo, sitiganizira za iwo nkomwe.
Muyenera kudzipangira nokha zosangalatsa zonse zomwe dziko lamakono limapereka. Ngati mumadziwa bwino zomwe mukufuna kuchita, chilengedwe chidzakupatsani mwayi wotere. Musasankhe ntchito yabwino kwambiri kapena yang'anani pa zokondweretsa za anthu ambiri.
Sankhani zomwe zimapangitsa mtima wanu kugunda mofulumira ndikukondweretsa moyo. N'zotheka kuti izi zikhoza kukhala mkati, kusewera piyano, kuphunzira zinenero zingapo panthawi yomweyo, kuyenda, etc.
Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuzindikira kuti zolaula monga bizinesi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yodzidzimvera ndi kulandira. Ngati mukuchita chidwi kwambiri ndi chinachake, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuphunzitsa anthu, kuchita maphunziro anu kapena kupanga mapulogalamu. Kotero, inu mudzapeza ndalama, ndi kuzindikira zomwe mungathe panthawi yomweyo. Njirayi ndi yodalirika kwambiri povumbulutsa maluso anu, kotero ganizirani mozama zomwe mukufuna kuchita.
Momwe mungatanthauzire chikhalidwe cha zokondweretsa?
Ponena za munthu akhoza kunena zambiri pa zokondweretsa zake:
- Monga lamulo, zofuna za anthu ogwira ntchito ndi okhudzidwa zimapangitsa kuti azichita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi zomwe zimagwirizana ndi masewera kapena ntchito yogwira ntchito. Izi zimafotokozedwa mophweka - amafunikira kwinakwake kuika mphamvu zawo. Iwo amapanga maphwando, amachita nawo kuvina kapena masewera oopsa.
- Ogocenters amadziwonetsera okha pa zochitika zotsatila izi: Amapembedza kuti asonkhanitse zinthu zapamwamba, kuti awonekere kumalo omwe angakhoze kuzindikira.
- Pa anthu okongola ndi okongola mungapeze mndandanda wa ndalama zasiliva, masampampu, makadidi kapena makadidi,
zochitika zakale, ndi zina zotero. - Chilengedwe chimawonekera mu kulenga zokongola zamisiri.
Koma, mwatsoka, anthu ambiri amathera nthawi yawo pamalo ochezera a pa Intaneti , kuyang'ana TV kapena kulankhula ndi anthu pa foni. Amanyalanyaza kufunika kwa zokondweretsa.
Pomaliza tiyenera kuzindikira kuti, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo a anthu, anthu omwe ali ndi chizoloŵezi chochita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi kapena kukhala ndi moyo wa wokondedwa wawo ali opambana mu ntchito zawo. Atakwanitsa kupambana, akukonzekera zokondweretsa kuti akule bwino. Amakhalanso odzidalira okha ndipo mosavuta amakumana ndi mantha awo, omwe angathe kufotokozedwa ndi kumasulidwa m'magazi a mahomoni okondweretsa panthawi ya ntchito ya wokondedwa.