Mayesero a maganizo a kudzidzidzimutsa ndi otchuka kwambiri posachedwapa. Otsutsa ena amakhulupirira kuti palibe ngakhale yeseso yodzidziwitsa yekha yomwe yapita pa intaneti ingathe kupeza zotsatira zolondola, kusiya ochita kafukufuku ali ndi deta yolondola kwambiri. Mwinamwake, izi ziridi choncho, chifukwa mayesero abwino kwambiri a kudzidziwitsa okha ndi moyo umene umatsegula mbali zonse za umunthu waumunthu, koma chidziwitso chodziwika kuti mayesero angaperekenso ndi othandiza kwambiri.
Mayeso odzidziwitsa okha pa intaneti
1. Tangoganizirani kuti musanachoke, yesetsani kuona zinthu zochepa kwambiri - mchenga, dzuwa. Ndiye ganizirani kacube m'chipululu, kulingalira kuti uli ndi kukula kwake. Tsopano yesani kuti muwone makwerero, muwone kuchuluka kwa masitepe omwe ali nawo, ndi momwe zilili pafupi ndi kacube. Ngakhale m'chipululu kuli bulu, yang'anani kumene kuli.
Mayankho a mafunso awa adzawonetsa malingaliro kwa iwoeni, abwenzi awo ndi mabanja awo. Chingwecho chikuyimira munthu mwiniwake, womveka bwino komanso wopepuka, munthu wokoma mtima komanso wotseguka. Miyeso ya kabichi imasonyeza momwe munthu amadziwira yekha. Makwerero akunena za abwenzi, ndi chiwerengero cha masitepe ndi mphamvu zake, asonyeze ngati mungawakhulupirire pa nthawi yovuta kapena ayi. Hatchi ndi theka lachiwiri. Pamene mukuyandikira makwerero kapena kavalo ku kabichi, chofunika kwambiri kwa inu.
2. Kupitiliza kuyenda kudutsa m'chipululu, munapeza chinsinsi mu mchenga. Ganizirani zomwe iye ali ndi zomwe iwe udzachite ndi izo.
Chofunika ndi malingaliro kwa abwenzi, chitsulo chophweka chidzanena za zosowa zofunika kwa abwenzi, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti iwo amafunikira - kuphweka poyankhulana. Mfungulo wakale wokalamba udzakuuzani za chikhumbo cha munthu kuti adziwonetsere anzake, akusankha omwe ali ndi udindo wapamwamba. Chinsinsi chachikulu cha golidi kuchokera m'nthano za Pinocchio chiwonetseratu kuti munthu ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi abwenzi, ayenera kukhala anthu okhulupirika ndi abwino. Ngati mutenga fungulo, ndiye kuti mumayamikira ubwenzi wanu, ngati mutachoka popanda kuwamvetsera, zidzasonyeza kuti muli otsekemera polankhulana, ndipo mukachoka mukatha kuyang'ana bwino, zimatanthauza chidwi chanu kwa anzanu komanso nthawi yomweyo mantha ubale wanu ndi katundu.
3. Pitirizani kudutsa m'chipululu chotentha, ndipo mudzawona mtsuko mumchenga. Onani momwe zilili, kaya mudzayang'ana mmenemo.
Ngati muyang'ana mu dzenje, ndiye kuti mumakonda chidziwitso chanu. Chombo chopanda kanthu ndi chizindikiro cha kudzidalira , ndi golidi kapena zokongoletsera - zapamwamba kwambiri, komanso ndi madzi - zowunika zenizeni za munthu, komanso zimasonyeza chikhumbo cha munthu kuti akule. Ngati nkhumbayo imapangidwa ndi dothi, ndiye kuti izi zimayankhula zokhudzana ndi chidziwitso chokwanira, ngati jug anapangidwa ndi chitsulo kapena mkuwa, ndiye kuti munthuyo alibe malingaliro awa.
4. Inunso mumadutsa m'chipululu ndipo mumawona patsogolo panu khoma lalikulu, lomwe likuoneka kuti liribe mapeto. Kodi mungatani?
Yankho la funso ili liwonetsa momwe mungathetsere mavuto. Ngati khoma likuwoneka kuti ndi lokwezeka kwambiri kwa inu, lomwe silingagonjetsedwe, limatanthauza kuti mavuto akukugwedezani kwambiri. Ngati mutayesa kuzungulira khoma, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri mumayesedwa ndi mavuto, ndikuyang'anitsitsa zotsatira zake zonse. Koma ngati mutangokhala pansi pa khoma ndikudikirira thandizo, ndiye kuti likulankhula za kusatetezeka komanso kudalira pazochitika.
5. Mutatha kupyola khoma, munawona mzindawu, kuchokera pachipata chomwe chidakwera. Kodi mungamupatse moni kapena simudziwa ngati mutayankhula?
Wachibwibwi ndi thanzi lanu, momwe mumachitira, monga momwe mumasamalirira thanzi lanu.
6. Mudzafika ku mzinda pakati pa nyumba yanu. Inu mupite kwa iye, kukwera masitepe ndi kutsegula chitseko ndi fungulo, pitani mkati. Fotokozani chilichonse chimene mwawona mmenemo.
Nyumbayi ndi dziko lanu lamkati. Mawindo akuluakulu ndi zipinda zazikulu amalankhula za ubwino ndi kutseguka kwa munthuyo, ndipo ngati zipindazo zili mdima, ndiye kuti munthuyo ndi wokhumudwa ndipo nthawi zambiri amadwala. Anthu amene adzakhale m'nyumbayi ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri kwa inu.
7. Pambuyo pokhala ndi mpumulo m'nyumba, mutayambiranso kulowa mumzindawu, mutadutsa, munali pamphepete mwa phompho, mukhoza kuwoloka pamsewu wopapatiza wopangidwa ndi munthu mmodzi. Mwayenda kale theka, koma mwadzidzidzi mwana wamasiye waonekera pamaso panu, akuletsa njira ndipo mwachidule sakufuna kukupatsani njira, ndipo muyenera kupita kumbali ina. Kodi mungatani?
Izi zikuyimira ubale wanu ndi anthu ena. Ngati mutayesetsa kuthetsa vutoli ndi dziko, ndiye kuti izi zikuyankhula za luso lanu. Koma ngati mutangokhalira kukankhira pa mlatho, ndiye kuti simungaganizire maganizo a anthu ena, kuthetsa mavuto.