Mpaka pano zinthu zonse zinali zokongola komanso zachikondi, zinkawoneka kuti zidzakhala choncho, ndipo lero zakhala zovuta kubisala chisokonezo ndi kusasamala mnyamata yemwe kale anali wokondeka. Ndipo mwinamwake panalibe chikondi, koma maonekedwe okha omwe inali nthawi yoti amalize. Momwe mungamuuze mnyamata zomwe tikusokoneza zili m'nkhaniyi.
Kukhala ndi chidaliro ndi kutsimikiza mtima
Inde, n'zovuta kuuza anthu mwanjira imeneyi kuti zonse zatha, makamaka kudziwa kuti iye sali wokonzekera. Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chofotokozera mnyamata zomwe angachoke, musabise mutu wanu ngati nthiwatiwa mumchenga ndi kutaya mawu odzipha pazinthu, osatulukanso ndi SMS kapena mauthenga pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti - ndi otsika, amawoneka achilendo komanso pamapeto pake, osakwanira, chifukwa munthu amene wapereka mphindi zambiri zokondweretsa ali ndi ufulu kunena "kukhululukira". Koma musamupangitse kuti azivutika movutikira, kuyamba kulemba zolakwa zake zonse monga ziphuphu pamaso ndi chikondi chosakhululukidwa kwa amayi ake.
Ndipotu awo omwe akuyembekeza kupulumutsa chiyanjano angathe kuyamba kudzifotokozera okha nthawi zonse zosamvetsetseka, ndipo ngati mbali ziwirizi zikufuna kupeza chiyanjano chomwe chiyenera kukwaniritsa aliyense, koma ngati chisankhocho chikutengedwa ndipo sichidandaula, ndichabechabechabe. Kufunsa momwe zimakhalira bwino kuuza munthu yemwe tikukhala naye ayenera kusamalira maganizo a mnzanuyo ndi kunena monga: "Ndiyenera kukhala ndekha" kapena "Ndiwe mnyamata wabwino, bwenzi, koma ndikuwona kuti monga munthu simukugwirizana nane, koma onetsetsani kuti pali wina amene angayamikire ulemu wanu wonse. "
Kodi mungauze bwanji mnyamata kuti tikugawana?
Apanso, pokhala ndi chigamulo cholimba, nkofunika kuthetsa chilakolako chofuna kukhala tsiku lomaliza nokha, komanso choipa - usiku wa chikondi. Zitha kuchitika kuti mnzanuyo ayesere kukopa aliyense kuti ayambe chirichonse kuyambira pachiyambi ndi choonadi ndi zibodza. Lingaliro loti likhalebe mabwenzi sichifukwa chabwino, chifukwa chasankhidwa okha ndi abwenzi, kuthetsa chiyanjano mwa kuvomerezana, ndipo ngati pali chokhumudwitsidwa, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kukhalabe ndi ubwenzi , ndi chifukwa chake ubwenzi wa munthu amene wakhumudwa, wakukhumudwa, wotopa basi.
Kotero, pofuna kudziwa momwe kulili bwino kumudziwitsa mnyamata kuti tikugawana, ndibwino kuti tichite maso ndi maso, pamalo abwino, pomwe palibe chomwe chingasokoneze ndi kusokoneza, ndipo mutatha kukambirana mwachidule nthawi yomweyo musadzayambe kuona. M'tsogolomu, kusunga maganizo ake komanso osamuuza anzanu kuti mwamusiya, yankho loyenera ndi kungokhala chete.