M'madera amakono, mungathe kukumana ndi azimayi ambiri omwe amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi korona wotsalira. Ndilo mawu omwe oimira zachiwerewere akufotokoza bwino mavuto pamoyo wawo. Musanayambe kupeza "matenda" oterewa ndi kofunika kupeza chomwe chimatanthauza lingaliro limeneli.
Kodi korona wa kusakhulupirika amatanthauzanji?
Kawirikawiri, mawuwa amatchedwa kusatheka kwa amayi kuti azitha kugwidwa ndi kugonana, zomwe ndizovuta kwambiri kuti azigwirizana. Korona ikhoza kungopangidwa ndi wamatsenga amphamvu ndipo imawoneka ngati "dome" yomwe imatha kuvala ndi munthu. Ndizosatheka kuti thupi lanu lisamveke ngati korona wa kusowa kwawo kulipo chifukwa sichimayenda m'njira iliyonse ndipo sichidziwonetsera yokha. Chikoka chachikulu chimachitika pa mphamvu ya mphamvu, kapena m'malo mwake kutsekedwa kwa kugonana ndi mtima chakra kumachitika. Nthaŵi zina, malo ena amphamvu akhoza kutsekedwa, zomwe zimangowonjezera vutoli. Wina akhoza kunena chinthu chimodzi: korona wa chilemala ndi chosowa, ndipo vuto la kusungulumwa kwa amayi ambiri ndi losiyana kwambiri.
Kumvetsetsa mutuwu, kutanthauza korona wotsalira, ndi bwino kulingalira funso la ndani yemwe angachite izi. Ali ndi kuthekera kovulaza, motero, kugonana kwazimayi, amatsenga okha amphamvu akuda, omwe sali ochuluka kwambiri. Pamene temberero limaperekedwa, osati munthu yekhayo amene akuvutika, koma mtundu wonsewo. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, zomwe amalingaliro amatsutsana nazo, m'zaka zazochita zawo pakati pa makasitomala ambiri, ndi anthu angapo okha omwe anali ndi korona wa chilema. Izi ndi zoyenera kulingalira, popeza ambiri olankhula zamatsenga ndi asing'anga kawirikawiri amaika "matenda" kotero kuti apeze ndalama ndi zina.
Momwe mungadziwire mtundu wa kubala?
Dziwani ngati vutoli lingakhale wamatsenga komanso wamatsenga. Ngakhale pali njira yochitira nokha. Kawirikawiri kukhalapo kwa korona kumawonekera pa mzere wa ukwati, uli pamphepete mwa mgwalangwa pansi pa chala chaching'ono. Ndi bwino kuganizira kuti mzerewu ukuwonetserana chikondi, osati mgwirizano wovomerezeka. Ngati palibe mzere pa manja onse awiri, ndiye kuti munthu akhoza kukhala ndi korona wotsalira. Umboni wa kupezeka kwake ndi mphete ya Mercury - mzere umene ukuzungulira pansi pa chala chaching'ono. Kawirikawiri palm palm ngati "chizindikiro" amatchedwa mphete ya mkazi wamasiye.
Kuchotsa korona wa celibacy
Pali njira yadziko lonse yomwe ingathandize kuthetsa mavuto osiyanasiyana a kusungulumwa. Kuti muchite mwambo, muyenera kugula makandulo 4 mu tchalitchi. Mmodzi wa iwo anaika patsogolo pa "chizindikiro" chamwamuna, chomwe chili kumanzere kwa khomo. Wina pamaso pa "wamkazi", ali kumanja. Ikani kandulo lachitatu kutsogolo kwa chithunzi cha St. Nicholas wochimwayo, ndi kuchotsa korona wachinyengo mu tchalitchi, nenani mawu awa:
"Mtumiki Wopambana wa Mulungu, ndipatseni ine, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), thandizo lanu ndi chitetezo."
Pembedzani nokha ndikunong'oneza za vuto lomwe liripo. Kenaka kanikani kandulo yachinayi m'malo alionse kuti mukhale ndi thanzi la okondedwa anu ndipo nenani maulendo 4.
"Mu dzina la Atate, ndi la Mwana, ndi la Mzimu Woyera." Ine, (dzina lanu),
Mutagula kandulo. Chiwerengero chawo chiyenera kufanana ndi chiwerengero cha amuna omwe alephera kumanga ubale . Ngati ali moyo, ndiye kuti awapatse mpumulo, ndipo ngati afa, ndiye kuti ali ndi thanzi labwino. Mukachoka mu mpingo, gwiritsani ntchito ndalama zambiri monga mukufunsira. Polimbikitsa mphamvu ya mwambo, mukhoza kuvomereza kapena kudya mgonero. Pambuyo pa mwambo, nkofunikira kuchita mwambo wa moyo wabwino kwa mwezi wotsatira wamwezi.
Kuti muyambe moyo ndi nkhope yoyera, ndi bwino kuti mukumane ndi katswiri wa maganizo omwe angakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa vutoli, khulupirirani nokha ndikupatsa mphamvu zokhudzana ndi ubale watsopano.