Nthaŵi zina aliyense wa ife amamva ngati kuti akuyenera kukhala munthu wina. Koma si aliyense amene amatha kumvetsa zifukwa za izi.
Munthu yemwe amadzimva kuti ali ndi udindo, amachepetsa kudzidalira komanso kudziona kuti ndi wofunika. Munthu wotereyo amayamba kuganiza kuti sizikutanthauza kanthu, komanso kuti makolo, abwenzi, gulu, anthu, ndi zina ndizofunikira kwambiri. Koma munthu aliyense ayenera kukhala moyo wake mokwanira komanso mokwanira. Ngati nthawi zonse mumasokoneza mphamvu yanu, nthawi ndi mphamvu kwa anthu ena okhala ndi lingaliro la kukwaniritsa, zidzakhala zosatheka.
Mu psychology, ntchito yowonjezera imatchedwa kuvomereza ntchito zomwe munthu amachita pamene akulowa mu ubale ndi anthu ena. Izi siziyenera kusokonezeka ndi chizolowezi choyamikira ndi kudziona kuti ndi wolakwa kapena kuchita ntchito kwa ena .
Pali kusiyana kwa kumverera ndi ntchito, pamene munthu akukhulupirira kuti ngati ali pa ubale wina ndi anthu, ndiye kuti ali ndi kanthu kena kwa iwo. Ndipotu, mavuto onse amabwera kuyambira ubwana. Makolo ambiri amauza mwanayo zoyenera kuchita, kuyang'anitsitsa patsogolo, kusuta fayilo, kukakamiza chinachake kuchita. Mu mawu - kulamulira nthawi zonse. Tsiku la mwanayo lajambula bwino ndi ora, ndipo palibe nthawi yotsala ya masewera kapena mpumulo wamtendere. Mwana woteroyo adzakhala mkhalidwe wosasinthasintha nthawi zonse. Zidzakhala zoopa kuchita chinachake cholakwika, kuti musakhumudwitse makolo anu. Chifukwa chake, munthu amakula, sadziwa kudzipangira yekha zosankha.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji udindo wanu?
Choyamba, muyenera kusankha chinachake. Ngati pali anthu omwe muli ndi mlandu waukulu, pemphani osapepesa ndikuiwala. Ngati izi sizikugwirizana ndi ndalama, nkoyenera kuiwala kumverera kotere kwamuyaya. Ndiyeno padzakhala kumverera mwachibadwa kwa kuyamikira ndi thandizo lomwe silidzabweretse mavuto.
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti mulibe ngongole kwa wina aliyense, choncho musasinthe maganizo a ena ndikukwaniritsa zofuna zawo. Aliyense ayenera kuganiza ndi kuzindikira kuti ndi yekhayo amene angakhale wosangalala. Musayese kukakamiza mwana wanu wokondwa kapena wina.
Kulimbana pakati pa kumverera ndi ntchito kumavutitsa anthu ambiri.
Kukhala ndi udindo kwa makolo kapena okondedwa kumatipangitsa ife kukhala osakhala moyo wathu wonse, koma wina. Kodi ndi nthawi yanji kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu kuti mukondweretse ena? Mkhalidwe wachilengedwe wa chithandizo mu kuthamanga sikudzapweteka, pamene kudzimva kukhala wolakwa ndi mantha kudzakulepheretsani inu kufikira njira.
Vuto la kukhala ndi udindo limathetsedwa mosavuta, pambuyo povomerezeka ndi kuzindikira kuti munthu aliyense ndi amene amachititsa chimwemwe chake.
Ngati mukudzimva kuti muli ndi udindo, kumbukirani kuti palibe wina koma inu nokha amene angakuthandizeni kuti mukhale osangalala. Kumbukirani kuti moyo wanu uli m'manja mwanu.