Kusagwirizana kwa anthu

Maonekedwe ambiri amavomerezedwa, monga lamulo, maganizo olakwika pa zinthu zina kapena zozizwitsa. Zithunzi zochepa zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pokambirana ndi izo.

Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti zitsanzo zosavuta zogawidwa zilibe zifukwa zenizeni zopezera moyo, koma zongopeka za anthu zakhazikitsidwa kale m'maganizo mwathu kuti ndizosatheka kuthetseratu ndi zosatheka. Mwachikhazikitso, kugwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika sizofuna zolinga zoipa za wina. M'malo mwake timatithandiza kuzindikira dziko lozungulira, ndikulikonza ngati momwe timagwirira ntchito posankha zochita mwamsanga.

Makhalidwe akuluakulu oyankhulana:

1. Kusinthasintha. Chimachitika chifukwa cha kukhumudwa pamalingaliro, akuwonetsedwa ngati chivomerezo chovomerezeka cha anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Chitsanzo pa nkhaniyi chikhoza kukhala chakuti ambiri a ife timaganiza kuti a British ali ovomerezeka, ndipo a German akuyenda bwino.
2. Zizindikiro zimakhudza momwe njira imathandizira komanso kusankha kwake.
3. Zitsanzo zimasonyeza kuyembekezera kwa khalidwe linalake kuchokera kwa ena, omwe amayesetsa kuwatsimikizira mwachangu. Ichi ndicho chodabwitsa cha makhalidwe osagwirizana.
4. Clichés amachititsa kuti zitsimikizidwe kuti zatsimikiziridwa.

Pali mitundu yambiri yosiyana siyana yomwe imakhudza ubwino ndi chilengedwe. Iwo angathenso kutchedwa zikhalidwe zosiyana, chifukwa ndizofala kwambiri.

1. Amuna. Monga mudamvetsetsa kale chithunzichi m'malingaliro a akazi ndi abambo. Chifukwa chake amalingalira kuti akazi ndi ofooka kuposa amuna kapena kuti mkazi sangathe kukhala mtsogoleri, popeza ntchito yake ndiyo kukhala mkazi ndi amayi.
2. Zaka. Muyeso ndilo kunena kuti ana onse ali "oyera mtima", achinyamata onse "ndi ovuta", ndipo achinyamata onse ndi ovuta komanso amphepo.
3. Mitundu. Iwo ankalankhula zapamwamba, koma monga chitsanzo wina angatchule lingaliro lovomerezeka kuti Japanese akugwira ntchito mwakhama, ndipo Achifalansa ali achikondi.

Zosintha zalowa m'mbali zonse za moyo wathu. Pali kale zinthu zoterezi zotsatsa malonda. Nthawi zambiri televizioni imagwiritsa ntchito mafano okonzeka kupanga chithunzi cha malonda kuti apangitse kukhululukira kuchokera pamtundu wolemera.

Maonekedwe achikazi amakhudzana ndi kupambana pazochita zamalonda ndi moyo waumwini. Choncho m'moyo munali miyezo ina yolakwika:

1. Mkazi alibe chimwemwe pamoyo wake ngati atapindula kwambiri pa ntchito zake zamalonda.
2. Ngati mayiyo ali ndi udindo waukulu mu kampaniyo, ndiye kuti ndi wovuta kwambiri ndipo chifukwa cha izi amasiya ukazi ndikukhala utsogoleri wopanda pake.
3. Zonse zomwe zimapindula pamoyo zomwe mkazi amapindula ndi chithandizo cha kugonana.
4. Ndi mkazi yemwe ayenera kutsuka ndi kuyeretsa, monga momwe mwamuna ayenera kupezera banja.

Zotsatila zamaphunziro zimachokera ku chisokonezo cha malingaliro okhudza ntchito, chifukwa anthu sadziwa zambiri zochitika zina za ntchito zina. Chifukwa cha izi, nthawi zambiri mumamva kuti katswiri wa zamaganizo amagwira ntchito ndi anthu odwala, ngakhale kuti si choncho.

Mitundu ina ya machitidwe ovomerezeka muzochita zamaluso ingakhazikitsidwe malinga ndi kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi zaka. Chitsanzo ndi mawu oti "mkazi ndi bwana", ndi zina zotero.

Musaiwale kuti kuganiza molakwika kumapangitsa munthu kukhala wongopeka komanso wotseka. Choncho, mvetserani zozizwitsa zomwe anthu amalingalira ndikuganiza kawiri musanayambe kuzichepetsa.