Kulankhulana kopanda mawu - manja

Zimadziwika kuti makumi asanu ndi awiri (70%) onse odziwa za interlocutor amalandiridwa, mozizwitsa, osati m'mawu ake, koma pogwiritsa ntchito mauthenga osalankhula (manja, nkhope, etc.). Kukwanitsa kuwerenga chilankhulo cha thupi ndi chimodzi cha kupambana kwakukulu mu luso lolankhulana. Koma ndi kofunika kukumbukira kuti palibe chochita kumvetsetsa mosiyana ndi ena. Chifukwa ndizovuta zomwe zimapanga kutanthauzira kolondola.

Zizindikiro - njira zosalankhulirana

Musanayambe kuwerengera manja anu, kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse muziganizira zomwe zikuchitika, mkhalidwe. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndizopusa kunena kuti munthu sakufuna kulankhula, ngati atoloka manja ndi miyendo ali pansi, adakweza mapewa ake chifukwa cha kuzizira kunja.

Zizindikiro zikhoza kukhala chitsimikizo cha zomwe zanenedwa, ndipo sizigwirizana nazo. Ngati ubalewu ulipo, ndiye kuti amangowonjezera zomwe zanenedwa, ndipo ngati palibe wina - ziyenera kuwonetsa manja, chifukwa mwa iwo mudzapeza zambiri zomwe simungathe kuzidziwa.

Chilankhulo cha manja monga njira zosalankhulirana zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi malo omwe anthu amakhala nawo komanso zaka zawo. Choncho, msinkhu wa kuyenda ukucheperachepera, chikwangwani chicheperapo pambali ya anthu ochepa chabe, ophunzitsidwa bwino kapena omwe, chifukwa cha matenda ena, amakumana ndi mavuto pa kayendetsedwe kake.

Kulankhulana kosagwirizana: mitundu yaikulu ya chinenero chamanja

1. Kusintha kwa manja ndi manja. Udindo wa interlocutor umasonyeza, ngati, kulandira dzanja lako, ulikuphimba ndiwekha kapena ngati mutambasula dzanja lanu. Anthu okonda zachiwawa amakonda kunyamula dzanja molimba. Yang'anirani, ngati mnzanuyo achoka pamapazi ake pamwamba ndikuika manja ake m'matumba ake, izi zimasonyeza kuti akufuna kukupatsani.
2. Chitetezo ndi kuukira. Chizindikiro cha chitetezo ndi kumbuyo kwa mpando, pamene munthu akufuna kukakhala pamwamba pake. Kugonjetsa chotchingachi n'kotheka ngati mukukambirana, kuyang'ana wothandizana naye kuchokera pamwamba, kapena kumupatsa mpando wokhala ndi mikono. Malo otetezeka - mutu wagwedezeka pansi. Sinthani vutoli, limbitseni mnzanuyo kuti alitembenuzire mbali (mwachitsanzo, kuchititsa chidwi ndi chinachake).
3. Zosangalatsa. Iwo akukhudza chinthu china, ngakhale kuti ndi cha wina.
4. Chidwi. Chizindikiro ichi chikufotokozedwa momveka bwino pang'onopang'ono, zomwe zikuphatikizapo kumwetulira. Pofuna kuthandizira maganizo a interlocutor, fotokozerani pa chinthu china, kenaka muyenera kutumizira omaliza pamlingo wa maso anu.