Makhalidwe komanso kudziimira

Anthu ambiri m'dziko lamakono sakudziwa kusiyana pakati pa malingaliro a umunthu ndi wina aliyense, nthawi zambiri kumvetsa tanthauzo lirilonse.

Onani kuchokera mkati

Ndipotu, kudziimira payekha ndi malo a munthu aliyense, kumapereka njira yapadera ndi yodabwitsa m'njira yake ndikuyisiyanitsa ndi anthu ena onse. Mwachidziwitso, izi zikhoza kuimiridwa motere: Munthu ndiwongolerana ndi anthu, kuyesa maubwenzi ake komanso kuchuluka kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu; Umwini ndiwomwe amadzionera yekha, chidziwitso chodziwika bwino cha makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe omwe umakhalapo pambuyo pake.

Ndili ndekha!

Umodzi wa munthuyo umasonyezedwa m'magulu ambiri a moyo waumunthu, kuyambira pazochita zamalonda ndi kumaliza kukambirana ndi malo oyandikana nawo. Ndi chifukwa cha "njerwa" zomwe aliyense wa ife amasiyana ndi mabiliyoni ambiri ofanana ndipo tikhoza kutsimikizira kuti kusinthika kwa mtundu wa anthu, komanso kuti, chitukuko cha chitukuko chinachitika chifukwa chakuti chilengedwe chinapatsa munthu aliyense khalidwe lake, zomwe zimathandiza anthu onse kukhala ndi makhalidwe awo kuthandizana wina ndi mzake, motero kulumikiza ziyanjano zonse za unyolo kukhala umodzi.

Kusinkhasinkha m'maso

Mwamuna, monga munthu komanso kudzipangira yekha, amasintha nthawi zonse, kuyambira nthawi yoberekera. Popanda chitukukochi, bungwe lovuta la anthu likanakhala losatheka. Makhalidwe a umunthu omwe amadziwika bwino amavumbulutsidwa panthawi zovuta. Luso lopanga chisankho moyenera ndi kutenga udindo wa zochita zawo ndi zochita za ena - zonsezi ndizisonyezero za umunthu wa munthu, ndipo makhalidwe amenewa akhoza kukhala ndi mayeso abwino komanso oipa omwe amawawona. Ndipo kuchokera pa izi, kupititsa patsogolo kwa umunthu wonse kumadalira makamaka. Poyang'ana m'maso mwa anthu ena ndikuwona malingaliro awo apo, tikupeza mfundo zina, zomwe zimachokera ndi kusankha momwe tingapitirire. Zimachokera ku maganizo kwa ena omwe akutizungulira kuti maganizo onse a maganizo akudalira kwambiri umunthu wa umunthu. Tikuyesera kuti tigwirizane ndi malamulo a masewerawa, olandiridwa ndi anthu komanso osakhala pa tsiku lawo. Kukhazikika kwaokha kumatsimikizira munthu kuti apambane pazochitika zonse za ntchito yake, yomwe ndi chitsanzo chowonekera ndi zolimbikitsa kwa anthu ena ammudzi.

Makhalidwe ndi umunthu mu psychology ali ndi nkhope zofiira mokwanira ndipo nthawi zambiri zimayenda bwino. Munthu ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu ndipo n'zosatheka kukhazikitsa makhalidwe ena mwayekha popanda kuyang'ana pagulu. Choncho, pakugwira ntchito ndi mbali ziwirizi pamalingo womwewo, akatswiri a maganizo amaganizira kwambiri zolinga zonse zomwe zimakhudza zomwe wodwalayo amachita, komanso mavuto omwe amakhudzana ndi chikhalidwe chake ndi malo omwe amakhalapo.