Kulankhulana kwa mawu ndi opanda mawu

Ngakhale moni wamba ukhoza kunena zambiri za munthu, ngakhale ndi mawu osachepera. Chinthucho ndi chakuti timagwiritsa ntchito njira zamaganizo, komanso maulendo osiyanasiyana osalankhulana. Izi ndizo, zolinga komanso maganizo angasonyezedwe popanda kulankhula. Inde, si zophweka kuphunzira "kuwerenga kwa anthu" kotere, koma nkoyenera kuyamba kuzindikira njira zosiyana zowankhulirana.

Zochita za kulankhulana mawu

Kawirikawiri njira iyi yogwirizanirana imagawidwa mu mitundu iwiri: kulankhula ndi mawu olembedwa. Koma palinso mawu otsogolera mkati, omwe timagwiritsa ntchito pamene tiganizira za zolankhula zathu kapena maganizo athu kulembetsa mau a uthengawo. Kumagwirizanitsa mitundu yonse ya machitidwe owonetsetsa oyankhulana - ndi kalata, komanso mukulankhulana, timagwiritsa ntchito mawu ndi ziganizo zina. Kotero zakhala zikuchitika, koma posachedwapa pakhala chizoloŵezi chosangalatsa chochepetsera mawu olembedwa poyankhula kudzera pa intaneti. Malamulo ambiri amtundu wapamwamba amatayidwa, popanda mtengo umene uthenga wa uthengawo sungakhudzidwe.

Palinso mawu omveka bwino, omwe amatanthauzira mawu, koma ali ndi zinthu zina zomwe sizinalankhulidwe. Ndi chilembo chachabe chogwiritsa ntchito ndi anthu omwe sangathe kuyanjana ndi ena.

Mfundo ina yomwe ndi yofunika pazokambirana ndi kupezeka kwa mayankho, popanda munthu sangathe kutsimikiza kuti zomwe akudziwazo zikuwonetsedwa bwino ndi chipani chachiwiri. Kuti mumvetse izi, kuyankha mafunso kungagwiritsidwe ntchito, monga aphunzitsi amachitira. Komanso, njira zopankhulirana zomwe anthu amagwiritsa ntchito mosazindikira zimatha kuwonetseratu kuti zimakhala zogwira mtima. Inde, ena amatha kudzisamalira okha, osapereka maganizo awo pa zomwe zikuchitika, koma ambiri alibe mphamvu zotere, kotero kuika patsogolo ndi manja kumatha kubweretsa zambiri zosangalatsa za munthu wina.

Mitundu ndi malemba a mawu osalankhulana

Kuyanjana kwa mtundu uwu ndi njira zonse zosalankhulirana. Mfundo zazikuluzikulu ndizo manja, nkhope ndi kupuma.

1. Manja ndi imodzi mwa njira zakale kwambiri zosinthanitsa mauthenga, atulukira ngakhale chinenero choyendayenda pamutu ndi manja. Koma ngakhale popanda kugwiritsa ntchito, kugwiritsidwa ntchito kumatha kunena zambiri. Choyamba, m'pofunika kumvetsera mwamphamvu, kukwera, ndikumangoganizira za zokambirana. Koma chiwonetsero ichi sichiri chonse kwa oimira amitundu osiyanasiyana. Motero, kugwiritsa ntchito manja kwakukulu kwa anthu a ku Mexico, otsatiridwa ndi Ataliyana, iwo ali kumbuyo kwenikweni kwa French, chabwino, zomwe zimasungidwa ndi Finns.
2. Mimicry ndi kusuntha kwa minofu ya nkhope, zomwe zimatanthawuza za momwe zimakhalira pamtima. Malinga ndi zotsatira za kafukufuku munthuyo akutumiza pafupifupi 10-15% mwazomwe akudziŵa, ndipo chiwerengero cha zofotokozera za mawu ake akuposa 20,000. Chisamaliro chachikulu chiyenera kuperekedwa kwa milomo ndi nsidze, komanso kufunika ndiko kuyang'ana. Kuyesera kuthawa kuwonana kwa maso kungaoneke ngati kuyesa kunama kapena maganizo oipa kwa oyankhulana. Kuyang'anitsitsa ndi chizindikiro cha chidwi, kusakhulupirira kapena kutsutsa. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chizindikiro ichi chikukhudzidwa ndi dziko. Anthu okhala m'madera akummwera amawoneka mobwerezabwereza kwa ena, ndipo anthu ochokera ku Asia, mwachitsanzo, a ku Japan amaona kuti ichi ndi chisonyezero cha kusayera, kuyesa kuyang'ana pa khosi. Palinso mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kukhudzana maso: bizinesi (kukonzekera pamphumi pamutu), chikhalidwe (kusiyana pakati pa pakamwa ndi maso) ndi chibwenzi (kuchokera pachigamba mpaka pachifuwa).
3. Pantomimika imaphatikizapo maimidwe, maonekedwe, maonekedwe ndi ziwalo zonse za thupi lonse. Gawo lingakuuzeni za maganizo, thanzi ndi khalidwe la munthu. Mwachitsanzo, njira yoyenda yowala imayankhula zachisangalalo, ndi zovuta-zazunza kapena za mkwiyo. Maudindo ali ndi katundu wambiri wambiri, pali pafupifupi chikwi cha iwo. Kusiyana kwa malo a thupi kudzalankhula za udindo wapadera poyerekeza ndi ena panopa. Aliyense amadziwa za kutseguka, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi wokonzeka kugwirizana, koma sikuti aliyense amakumbukira kuti kutsekedwa kwake sikungosonyeza kusakhulupirira kapena kusagwirizana kwa interlocutor, koma kumamuthandizanso kuti asatenge gawo la magawo atatu mwazomwe akudziwa.

Kuphatikizana, kumakhudza n'kofunika (kugwedeza dzanja, kugwedeza pamapewa), chigamulo cha mawu ndi chiyankhulo, kulankhula, kupuma, kuphatikizapo kuseka, mpweya wa wolankhula. Zonsezi nthawi zonse zimakulolani kupeza lingaliro la chikhalidwe ndi zizoloŵezi zina za munthu pambuyo pa maminiti angapo akulankhulana.