Kulankhulana

Kuyankhulana ndi chidziwitso chomwe chimasonyeza kuti ndi luso lanji loyankhulana ndi anthu ena. Ndipotu, izi ndi zofunika kwa munthu yemwe ali wofunikira kwambiri pazomwe akulankhulirana - izi ndizofunikira pakutanthauzira kuyankhulana.

Kuyankhulana - mitundu iwiri

Awa ndi lingaliro lophweka, chifukwa pofuna kulankhulana bwino, munthu ayenera kulumikizana ndi miyezo yambiri mwakamodzi. Kuyankhulana kumaphatikizapo kuyankhulana kwabwino, ndi kutanthauzira kutchulidwa, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito njira zowonetsera, ndikutha kupeza njira kwa munthu aliyense. Ngati chidziwitso cholankhulana ndi momwe munthu amakwaniritsira zofunikira, ndiye kuti ali ndi luso - izi ndizo zonse zomwe zifunikira.

Kuyankhulana kumaphatikizapo mitundu iwiri: mawonekedwe ndi osadziwika bwino. Choyamba ndi msana wa malamulo okhwima olankhulana. Monga lamulo, liri ndi bungwe lake m'bungwe lililonse, ndipo limakhazikitsidwa mwa kulemba ndipo likuyimira gawo lofunikira la chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe. Machitidwe odziwitsidwa oyankhulana si lamulo lolembedwa kuti monga malamulo amachita monga zikhalidwe za chikhalidwe kapena gulu la anthu. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kuyankhulana kumaphatikizapo malamulo osiyanasiyana, ndipo palibe vuto limodzi kwa onsewa. Malingana ndi chilengedwe chomwe chilankhulo chikuchitika, chidzasintha kwambiri.

Zikugwirizana ndi luso loyankhulana

Zopangira ziyankhulo zoyankhulirana ndizokulu. Pamene dongosolo lina la zofunikira likuyambitsidwa, nthawi zambiri limakhala ndi zigawo zotsatirazi:

• Kudziwa makhalidwe ndi mavuto a anthu omwe mukufunikira kuyankhulana nawo pa ntchito;
• kukhala ndi machitidwe ena oyankhulana;
• luso lofufuza manja, maonekedwe ndi nkhope;
• kukhala ndi mfundo zofunikira;
• Kukhala ndi njira zolankhulana;
• kuthekera kuthetsa mikangano pachiyambi pomwe;
• kudziwa za mtundu wina wa mawu;
• kuthekera kumvetsetsa malingaliro ndi zofuna za munthu wina;
• luso lokonzekera ndi kukambirana;
• luso loyang'anira miyambo ndi luso;
• ena akuchita maluso;
• maluso omvetsera omvera;
• chilankhulo cholembedwa;
• kulankhula kwakukulu;
• chidaliro mu liwu;
• luso lomvera;
• kuthekera kutsutsana maganizo ake.

Mpangidwe uwu wa chidziwitso choyankhulana ndi chilengedwe chonse ndipo umakhudza maphwando ambiri omwe ali othandizira kulankhulana bwino.