Inde, kuti pali akazi padziko lapansi omwe anali ndi mwayi wokonda apongozi awo poyang'ana. Koma, tsoka, palibe zambiri zoterozo. Chochitika chofala ndi nkhondo pakati pa mpongozi wake ndi apongozi ake. Koma mungathe kupewa nkhondoyi ngati mukudziwa kukhazikitsa ubale ndi apongozi anu.
- Adzasinthidwa kumvetsetsa pamsonkhano woyamba . Zimapezeka kuti mtsikana kwinakwake mumtima mwake akudandaula ndipo amaopa anzake. Koma musachite izi. Mu psychology ya maubwenzi ndi apongozi ake ndi bwino kuti mukhale nokha ndi kukhala owona mtima. Kwa mnyamata, nkofunika kwambiri kuti mkazi wake azikonda amayi ake. Musamaweruze apongozi anu atangoyang'ana, ndipo zochita zawo ndi ziweruzo zawo zisamangidwe. Musanapite kumsonkhano, ndibwino kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza amayi a mwamuna wanu ndi zomwe amakonda.
- Pangani mtendere m'banja . Mukalowa m'banja la wina, muyenera kuchita zinthu zachilendo. Mwachitsanzo, apongozi azikonda kuphika poto kapena kutseka zovala zanu zam'kati pa batri m'chipinda chimodzi. Zimakhala zovuta kuti azizoloŵera zinthu zatsopano komanso njira iyi ya moyo. Koma ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kuli gawo lake, ndipo osati mosiyana, ndiye kuti apongozi ake amazoloŵera njira yotereyi. Ndikofunika kuyanjanitsa ndikumulemekeza.
Kodi mungatani kuti muyanjana ndi apongozi anu mutatha kukangana?
Kawirikawiri pakati pa mpongozi ndi apongozi ake, mikangano imayamba. Momwe mungakhalire mumkhalidwe uwu komanso zomwe mungachite ngati apongozi anu ali ndi chibwenzi choipa.
Mlamu wake ayenera kukhala ndi chipiriro ndi nzeru , kotero kuti mikangano ndi kusagwirizana nthawi zonse sizimayambitsa chisudzulo cha okwatirana chifukwa cha apongozi awo. Ndikofunika kusonyeza ulemu pa zomwe zinachitikira mayi wa mkazi wake, kumuthokoza chifukwa cha kulera bwino mwana wake, yemwe amapangitsa moyo kukhala wosangalala. Poyankhula ndi apongozi ake, ndi bwino kuti musagwiritse ntchito mau owonjezereka, koma kulankhula molimba mtima ndi mwamtendere.