Munthu aliyense msanga kapena mtsogolo, koma amachita chinachake mu moyo wake, pambuyo pake amatha kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa pa zomwe wachita, kudzimva chisoni. Zimabwera pamene munthuyo adziwa zomwezo zomwe adazichita, ndikudandaula. Kukana zolinga, mogwirizana ndi zomwe zinalipo kwenikweni, munthu wolapa mosadziŵa, koma kubwezeretsa ku chikumbumtima chake. Munthuyo posakhalitsa amadziwa zimene wachita, amamva kuti tanthauzo lake likutsutsana. Ndine wokonzeka kutenga udindo chifukwa cha zotsatira.
Kutembenuka kwachangu
Imodzi mwa njira zazikuru zakumva chisoni ndikutembenuka mtima. Kuchita mwaufulu kwa munthu amene wachita zolakwa zina. Cholinga chachikulu cha zochita zoterozo ndikutulutsa zoipa zomwe zimachitika, kuchepetsa kapena kuchotseratu zotsatira zake. Pachifukwa ichi, munthuyo amadziwitsa za zomwe zinachitikazo magulu omvera malamulo.
Kukhumudwa kotereku kumatha kuchepetsa ziyeso zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa munthuyo pamlandu wolakwa.
Chizindikiro cha kulapa kwachangu
Malingaliro a lamulo lachigawenga amasiyanitsa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kulapa kwakukulu:
- Yambani ndi kuvomereza.
- Thandizo pothetsa vutoli.
- Kudzipereka mwaufulu chifukwa cha kuwonongeka kwa zochita za munthu.
- Kuthetsa zoipa zomwe zinayambitsa.
- Kupewa zotsatira zomwe zili ndi khalidwe loipa lachigamulochi.
Pali zizindikiro zenizeni komanso zenizeni za kulapa kwathunthu.
Zochita zolinga ndizo zomwe zidafotokozedwa ndi lamulo. Iwo amapanga mbali ya kulapa kokhudzana ndi yogwira ntchito.
Mbali imeneyi imadziwika mosavuta. Monga lamulo, ilo likukhazikitsidwa mu lamulo mwa mawonekedwe a zogwiritsira ntchito malamulo olimbikitsa kwa olapa.
Munthu woteroyo angadziwike kuti ndi munthu yemwe saganiza kuti zochita zake ndi zolakwika, koma amachita zofunikira ndilamulo.
Kwa mitundu yonse ya kulapa kwachangu, zolinga zamagulu onse ndizofunikira phindu la zochita, zochita zawo.
Makhalidwe apadera amaphatikizapo: mtundu wina wa khalidwe, mtundu wa ntchito yogwira ntchito yomwe ikufuna kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe zimathandiza anthu.
Kulapa mwakhama m'mayiko monga Latvia, Mongolia, CIS mayiko (kuphatikizapo Kyrgyzstan) amagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chifukwa chachikulu chomasula munthu wolakwa kuchokera ku mlandu wamlandu.
Malamulo a mayiko a CIS amalephera kugwira ntchito imeneyi munthu amene adachita cholakwa choyamba, koma ngati munthuyo wapereka mwaufulu. Pochita izi, adathandizira kufufuzira ndikudziwitsanso milanduyo.
Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti kulapa kulikonse komwe kumachokera pamtima kumakhala ndi chidziwitso cha chikumbumtima. Pachifukwa ichi, wolakwira mwiniwakeyo amadzipangira yekha zomwe zingachepetse mlandu wake.
Pambuyo pake, kulapa nthawizina kulibe phindu limene mawu a kulapa, omwe amalankhula pa nthawi yoyenera, angabweretse. Koma mtundu uwu wachisoni ndi wofunika kwa wolakwa yekha, chifukwa cha kudzidzimva kwake. Ngati atatha kupirira phunziro lothandiza pa zomwe zinachitika ndipo amamva chisoni, ndiye kuti ali wokonzeka kusintha yekha.
Vuto la kulapa
Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti vutoli limayambira mu dziko lililonse, mosasamala kanthu za kukula kwake. Koma m'mayiko onse mlingo wa mawonetsedwe ake ndi wosiyana. Kukonzekera kwake kwa munthu kulapa kumadalira pa msinkhu wake wodziwa, kudzipereka kwake kutenga udindo wina. Vuto la kulapa ndiloti m'dziko lamakono la mavuto, ndalama ndi mpikisano wopambana, anthu ena amaiwala kusungunula zomwe zili mkati, kuganiziranso maganizo awo pa zinthu zambiri za uzimu.
Kotero, kulapa, chirichonse chomwe chiri, nthawizonse chimakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino, choyamba, kwa olapa kwambiri.