Mwinamwake mwakumana ndi anthu omwe amakhulupirira motsimikiza kuti chinthu chimodzi chimakhala chabwinoko kuposa china, ndipo palibe zifukwa kapena zotsutsana zomwe zingawathandize iwo mosiyana. Izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa cha matenda a bakha - chiwonetsero chachidziwitso chomwe ndi chachilendo kwa anthu ena. Lingaliro limeneli sayenera kusokonezeka ndi matenda osokoneza bongo. Tidzakambirana njira zonse ziwiri.
Mfundo ya bakha
Matenda a bakha ndi chinthu chodabwitsa chimene munthu, akukumana ndi malo atsopano, amayamba kusiyanitsa, chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndicho choyamba chomwe adachiwona. Mwachitsanzo, munthu yemwe anayesa Coca-cola woyamba, osati Pepsi-Cola, adzatsimikiza kuti kukoma kwake kuli bwino, komanso mosiyana.
Mbali imeneyi yamaganizo inkatchedwa ndi mapangidwe okongola a abakha. Ng'ombe ikatuluka pa dzira, chinthu choyamba chimene akuwona ndi chakuti amayamba kuwerengera ngati amayi ake, ngakhale chidole, paka kapena galu, munthu. Mofananamo, munthu, powona china chatsopano, amatha kuzindikira kuti izi ndi zabwino kwambiri, osamvetsera zolinga zenizeni. Zotsatira za bakha zimapangitsa munthu kukhala wosakondera komanso wosakondera maganizo a anthu ena.
Ugly Duckling Syndrome
Syndrome yonyansa bwenzi - ichi ndi chinthu china chodabwitsa. Zimayimira kuchoka kwa munthu mmodzi m'banja. Kawirikawiri izi zimachitika osakwanira kapena m'banja losagwira ntchito, koma pali zosiyana. Munthu amene amadzidzimutsa mwadzidzidzi, amakula ndi kusungulumwa komanso kusamvetsetsana, akuwona kuti sakugwirizana ndi zomwe makolo ake amayembekeza, amakumana ndi izi.
Pachifukwa ichi ndikofunikira kupeza ubale wauzimu, kupeza anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi odalirika, omwe adzatenga nkhosa zawo. Munthu sangakhale womasuka ngati atsala pang'ono kuchotsedwa. Monga lamulo, anthu oterowo amafunikira kuthandizidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, koma ambiri amakumana nawo popanda.