Maukwati Oyambirira

Ukwati ndi chimodzi mwa zochitika zodabwitsa komanso zofunikanso pamoyo wa pafupifupi aliyense.

Monga lamulo, pamene achinyamata amayamba kukondana, lingaliro laukwati nthawi zina limawoneka pamutu pawo ndipo limatenga malo ochuluka tsiku ndi tsiku. Zotsatira zake ndizokwatirana. Kawirikawiri, ukwati ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Anthu awiri achikondi amalumikizana mu mgwirizano kuti athandizane ndi kuthandizana wina ndi mzake, kugawana chimwemwe ndi chisoni. Kodi izi ndi zoona pamene ukwati uli wamng'ono?

Maukwati oyambirira - Zochita ndi Zochita

Tiyeni tiyambe ndi nthawi yoipa, ndiyeno - tisonyeze iwo ndi zabwino. Nanga, ndizovuta ziti zoyambirira m'banja?

1. Psychilo yopanda nzeru. Inde, pa zaka zirizonse zikuwoneka kuti zosankha zomwe mumapanga ndizo zanu komanso zothandiza. Koma vuto ndilokuti kumverera kotero kudzakhala pa gawo lililonse la kukula. Pomalizira, psyche ya munthu imapangidwa ndi zaka 29. Mu moyo, uli wodzaza ndi zitsanzo. Ngakhale mpaka zaka 23-25, mnyamata kapena mtsikana angakhale ndi nthawi yosintha malingaliro awo pa moyo, zofuna ndi zosangalatsa. WOPHALA WAMBIRI. Ndipo sizowona kuti wosankhidwayo, yemwe adzakhala pafupi, adzalumikizana ndi munthu watsopano uyu.
2. Kulandira chikoka cha kugonana kwa chikondi. Izi ndizolakwika molakwika. Pokhala wachinyamata wa zaka komanso osadziŵa zambiri, anyamata ndi atsikana nthawi zambiri amakhudzidwa chifukwa cha chidziwitso, ndipo amakopeka ndi zosadziwika chifukwa cha chikondi. Ndiye zikutanthauza kuti chirichonse chomwe chidziwike chadziwika kale, ndipo chomwe chimatsalira sichisangalatsidwa ndi wina aliyense. Zotsatira zake, zokhumudwitsa ndi zokhumudwitsa mwa anthu. Chifukwa cha kusamvetsetsana.
3. Maganizo olakwika okhudza kukhala pamodzi. Mwinamwake, panthawi ino mungathe kufotokozera moyo umene mwadzidzidzi unagwera pamutu panu, ndi kusowa kwa ufulu waumphawi, ndi kupezeka, monga momwemo, pokonzekeretsa chikhalidwe cha moyo wokhazikika.

Mavuto ena onse oyambirira a ukwati ali pafupi ndi mfundo izi.

Chifukwa chake maukwati oyambirira ndi abwino, ndi:

1. Kukhazikika pakati pa mnzanuyo. Anthu amene asonkhana ali aang'ono, zimakhala zosavuta kugwirizana.
2. Kusiyana pang'ono pa msinkhu ndi ana. Izi zidzathandiza makolo kumvetsa bwino ana ndipo, mwina, adzagawana nazo zofuna zambiri.
3. Ubale wa nthawi yayitali. Malinga ndi chiwerengero, anthu omwe anakwatira maukwati oyambirira amakondwerera ukwati wa golidi.

Inde, chisankho chomaliza kuti chikhale kwa anthu awiri, koma pamene pali zitsanzo zambiri zogwira mtima, mukhoza kuyembekezera pang'ono. Chikondi, ngati chiri chenichenicho, sichidzachoka pa izi.