Moyo wa banja sungokhala ngati nkhani yamatsenga, pali mikangano ndi zokhumudwitsa. Nthawi zina, m'malo mofuna maphikidwe atsopano pa chakudya chamadzulo, tikuganiza momwe tingamulangizire mwamuna chifukwa chovulazidwa. Zoonadi, pangakhale zofuna zambiri, koma vuto ndilo kuti chilango sichititsutsana kwambiri.
Momwe mungamulangizire mwamuna chifukwa cha chipongwe?
Zinthu zomwe zingakhumudwitse misala, koma osati onse oyenera kukhululukira. Mwachitsanzo, ganizirani momwe mungamulangizire mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha kumenyedwa, musati mukonzeko pang'ono. Mwamuna yemwe wadzilola yekha chinthu choterocho, ndithudi adzagunda kachiwiri, sadzaika moyo wake pangozi.
Nthawi zambiri akazi amalakwitsa, kuganizira momwe angamulangizire mwamuna wake chifukwa cha kumwa. Choyamba, muyenera kusiyanitsa pakati pa vuto limodzi ndi chizolowezi. Ngati kuchipatala n'kofunika, ndipo chilango chilichonse chidzabweretsa mavuto. Chachiwiri, chilango cha mowa mopitirira muyeso sichingakhale chopanda nzeru - aliyense angathe kuthetsa kapena kumasuka ndi anzake. Muyenera kufotokozera mwamuna wanu kuti simukukhumudwa ndi iye chifukwa chofuna kupuma pambuyo pa ntchito yolimbika, koma chifukwa cha khalidwe lake. zomwe zinayambitsa zakumwa zauchidakwa. Ndiuzeni kuti akukugwetsani pansi, akuphwanya pangano lomwe munali nalo, amawopseza ana ndi mawonekedwe ake oledzera kapena amangochita zoipa, ndipo izi zinakuchititsani kuti mutenge zobwezera. Pachifukwachi, chilango cha cholakwa chirichonse chiyenera kufotokozedwa, mwinamwake mwamuna akuganiza kuti mukumugwira pachabe, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amuna samawona khalidwe lawo loipa ndipo samvetsa zomwe timachita.
Kotero, nchiyani chingachitike? Yesetsani kuika mwamuna mmalo omwewo kuti iye ndiwe. Mwachitsanzo, sanachenjeze kuti akupita ku bar ndi abwenzi ake madzulo, osayankha maitanidwewo, anabwera mmawa ndipo sanaganizepo kupepesa chifukwa chake? Tsiku lotsatira, konzekerani msonkhano ndi anzanu kapena kungogona pa imodzi mwa iwo, kungochotsa foni. Musayamikire kuyesetsa kwanu kuti mupange nyumba yabwino? Kwa tsiku limodzi ndikuiwala za ntchito zanu, nenani kuti mwatopa ndipo mwamuna wanu adzayenera kuthana ndi zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku nokha. Kodi samamva ndipo safuna kukumverani, ziribe kanthu zomwe mukunena? Mupatseni mpumulo wofuna, khalani chete tsiku lonse, msiyeni alankhule ndi TV kapena katemera.
Amuna ena amapititsa patsogolo dongosolo la chilango. Chifukwa cha kulakwitsa kwa mwamuna wake, kungakhale ulendo wogula, kukhumudwa kwambiri, kumakhala nthawi yambiri yogula . Ngati palibe mgwirizano, ndipo "mimba" wokondedwayo imayendera, pitani kukagwira ntchito ndi malingaliro. Samalani manicure ake pojambula misomali yake mumitundu yosiyanasiyana pamene akugona, ndi kubisala msomali wopukutira msomali, mumulole kuti ayende ku sitolo yoyandikana nayo. Sinthani foni pa foni yake, ikani chinachake chomwe sichiyenera kwa iye - chojambula chodziwika bwino cha Bieber kapena kugwidwa koopsa kwambiri pa zochitika zapakhomo, phokoso lolimba la Ramstein kapena amayi a piquant. Chotsani ku galimoto yovuta kapena kungosunthira kumalo ena kusonkhanitsa mafilimu kapena kuchotsa masewera omwe mumakonda, bweretsani
Ngati mukufunafuna njira yolanga mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha chiwembu , zomwe mumalingalira moona mtima kuti mwanyengerera, ndiye kuti sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito kamodzi kokha kuti muganizire ngati mudzakhululukira mnzanuyo. Ngati sichoncho, musayambe kutaya mphamvu zanu kubwezera, koma ngati mupulumutsa banja lanu, mungayese kukwiya, kupanikizana ndi kuopseza mbuye wanu. Koma mungayesenso njira yolanga mwachikondi. Muyenera kuyendetsa mwamuna wosakhulupirika mosamala kuti amvetsetse chuma chomwe akufuna kuti asinthe kwa mkazi wa munthu wina yemwe sangathe kupereka ngakhale chakhumi cha chikondi chomwe amalandira m'banja.